Almost every week I have an ultimatum talk

[corona20]

Is this normal..because of her crazy nature and how she creates drama out of nothing?

 

[Stanley]

Dude, you know this isn't a good thing. Normal? For some people sure, but don't be involved with those people. Women that make a mountain out of a mole hill and incite drama are to be avoided.

 

[SW15]

Ultimatums are not good. You need to exit.

 

[Gamisch]

Been there.

It always boils down to a lack of and/ or fading attraction from her side.

Now mind you, this shouldn't even be taken personal. She probably just wonders around and thus creates drama.

You are in fist deep( with your head) so you ""can't see clearly". Once the smoke clears for YOU ,you'll understand that you are/ were wasting time with her.

I can guarantee you that if she was less attractive you'd drop her in a heartbeat. This sweet p00sy will be gone rather sooner than later mon ami, no matter how much you are willing to fight for it..

 

[FlexpertHamilton]

Is this normal..because of her crazy nature and how she creates drama out of nothing?

You mean you give her ultimatums or she gives you them? If it's the latter it sounds like this is already a lost cause. If the former then what I say probably still holds...

 

[corona20]

sorry, I'M the one who gives the ultimatum. to straighten to straighten her jealous attitude

 

[BoomToTheMoonAlice]

The only ultimatum talk you should be having is with yourself.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

Is this normal..because of her crazy nature and how she creates drama out of nothing?

No, you just enjoy being in a toxic relationship and like the drama just as much as she does.

She clearly has no respect for you at this point and you clearly have no respect for yourself since you continue to put up with it.

But that's sort of how it works. A woman cannot respect a man who does not respect himself.

And FYI, ultimatum talks don't work...they simply make you look weak.

 

[AmsterdamAssassin]

If you don't know how to tame brats, don't become a brat tamer.

 

[soulforge]

If she is causing issues & your giving ultimatums on a weekly basis, then clearly this a toxic relationship.

For what period of time have you been giving these ultimatums? Months? Years?

Verbal ultimatums should be given maybe ONCE, after that, you should be letting your legs do the talking, by walking away from her.

 

[Ricky]

I think its better to be quiet and willing to withdraw your attention that issue or be issued ultimatums.

some more context on the nature of the ultimatums would be helpful