You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
These gold diggers are much worse than prostitutesIn other words, they are prostitutes. But now we call them "sugar babies". Right....
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
A horny man sees what he wants to see.The thing about this is the women are NOT THAT HOT.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Posting in a thread just to complain about it?Probably one of the more pointless threads I've seen for a while. I love it when people quote statistics on the internet.
"Nearly 50% of gold diggers are college students". [Where the other 50% are women of any age].
I mean, next you'll be trying to tell us that grass is green and the sky is blue.
Lol.. learn to read.These videos are like all the other videos on youtube. You can search through the tens of thousands of college students and find the ten or twenty you need to make your point.
All you really need to do is sort these girls out and stop complaining about how horrible women are.
I didn't say either. What are you reading?Says almost 50% of gold diggers are college students.. NOT almost 50% of college students are gold diggers.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Fair point.That's a good question. But no, i wouldn't.
And the difference, from what i can gather, is that these types enjoy the feeling of being looked after.
The girl who i knew, couldn't be alone. Moved to the UK with boyfriend, broke up, then moved in with this guy that spoiled her. No one allowed round there when he was at home, but he was always out on business, and that's when i could go around.
I'm the complete opposite in personality type, and would never go for such a thing.
No different than why i'm not desperate to date someone for a valentines day, or whatever. It's a completely different biology.
Men are both motivated and demotivated by sex more, i reckon.
What were you babbling about then?I didn't say either. What are you reading?
No thanks, I'm good.Posting in a thread just to complain about it? Go find another one. There are hundreds lol.
Complaining about gold diggers and money again, when your go to strategy is to hand out 'business cards'.Posting in a thread just to complain about it?
There are hundreds of other threads here for you to read if you don't like this one lol.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.