Almost 1 Month of being together with my GF, What should I?

[aznxboi]

Hey fellow Djer`s
Well Its almost my 1 Month anniversary with my gf. Any suggestion, of what I should get her? Or take her? Or maybe I should hold off the gift, and just get her something better on christmas? What do yall think?

 

[huge_guy_pimpin]

Originally posted by aznxboi
Hey fellow Djer`s
Well Its almost my 1 Month anniversary with my gf. Any suggestion, of what I should get her? Or take her? Or maybe I should hold off the gift, and just get her something better on christmas? What do yall think?

if by better u mean sumthing that means more, yes, but dont spend more than 50$ on it, and thats a max.
dont be materialistic.
take her romantic place on the day of

 

[rappermas]

And never get laid? Don't supplicate to her and buy her stuff.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

 

[huge_guy_pimpin]

Originally posted by Francisco d'Anconia

?????

 

[LuvMyArmyMan]

dont get her anything. Thats totally lame. Gifts should be reserved for 6 months or a year and longer. Not a measly month. Anyone can last a month.

 

[check_mate_kid_uk]

Re: Re: Almost 1 Month of being together with my GF, What should I?

Originally posted by huge_guy_pimpin
if by better u mean sumthing that means more, yes, but dont spend more than 50$ on it, and thats a max.
dont be materialistic.
take her romantic place on the day of

50$ is way to much and this is at a time when $50 is only £30 to me and i still think its way to much.

more like no more then £5 ie a small gift that is tohughtfull and cheap. If you go out somewhere that can cost more because she is paying half.

You have been with her for 1 month there is really no need to start showering her with gifts. If you are going to do that why not get her a new boyfreind whilst your at it.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Originally posted by LuvMyArmyMan
dont get her anything. Thats totally lame. Gifts should be reserved for 6 months or a year and longer. Not a measly month. Anyone can last a month.

Don't take this the wrong way, but that is one of the most mature and accurate things that I've heard from any teenager on this site.

A month does not constitute a relationship. Truthfully, anything less than six months doesn't count either. It takes six months for the skeletons to come out of the closet and for the couple to be relaxed enough to truly be themselves around each other.

At six months (if you last that long) you are in a place to objectively review your time together and decide whether it's even worth dating each other. It's difficult to do when you're young because a month can seem like an eternity, however as you get older time is more fleeting and a month with someone feels like only a heartbeat.

Aznxboi, if you must do something, do something together at three months. Nothing huge, just something that you'd both enjoy. If you make it to six, then you should consider THAT a real achievement.

 

[aznxboi]

Hey everyone,
LuvMyArmyMan, I was thinking the same way as you dude. But, right now Im in a tuff situation. All her friends bf, getting there gf somewhat of a small gift. SO I want mines, to feel special also and not be left out. I want to just get her something very unique and memorable. That cost around $3 - $8. Anyone got any idea what would be good small gift around that price range?

I aint trying to shower her with gift. It just that I dont want to be look as a cheap person. So might as well, spend couple of bucks. Besides, Christmas coming up also. You guys, not evenin spendin a buck on your gf on Christmas as well?

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Get her a scented oil. They run from $5-10. You can even find some that are on a cord or chain so that she can wear it around her neck...

I wouldn't usually suggest this to anyone who's not in a committed LONG TERM relationship because used properly, it can create a very powerful emotional anchor with the woman.

Creating such an anchor before establishing a true bond between a couple will give you false readings about how she truly feels about you. But you're young, it's cheap and you have plenty of time to learn from your mistakes.

 

[check_mate_kid_uk]

Originally posted by aznxboi
Hey everyone,
LuvMyArmyMan, I was thinking the same way as you dude. But, right now Im in a tuff situation. All her friends bf, getting there gf somewhat of a small gift. SO I want mines, to feel special also and not be left out. I want to just get her something very unique and memorable. That cost around $3 - $8. Anyone got any idea what would be good small gift around that price range?

I aint trying to shower her with gift. It just that I dont want to be look as a cheap person. So might as well, spend couple of bucks. Besides, Christmas coming up also. You guys, not evenin spendin a buck on your gf on Christmas as well?

well you may have a point because if her freinds say what there boyfreinds by them and you buy her nothing she will feel left out. But just because the other guys act AFC does not mean you have to, most guys are AFC hence the word average in it, the whole point is you are not AFC so so somthing else that she can tell her freinds you did for her, somthing that does not involve buying her presents. Maybe somthing romantic.

 

[Eternal]

For a 1 month anniv, just go to a decent resturant to eat. Something that is better than Denny's (IE: Olive Garden, Outback, ect.)

For a gift...Stick to a card, if that. 1 month = 3 weeks or so. Nothing too big.

When you reach the 6 month one though...Hit us back and I'll give you some tested (and approved, right Fist_of_Fury? ) ideas.

 

[Fist_of_Fury]

Yeah. Little simple stuff. Like a card or a little flower or something. You don't really need to get anything. I like Eternal's idea about going somewhere for food...that's always good.If you keep stuff simple until about 6 months or so, then it'll be kicka$$.

 

[Giovanni Casanova]

Most y'all are off your gotdamned rockers. A one month anniversary in high school? Here's what you give a high school girl on your one month anniversary: a chance to win another month with you.

 

[Eternal]

Originally posted by Giovanni Casanova
Most y'all are off your gotdamned rockers. A one month anniversary in high school? Here's what you give a high school girl on your one month anniversary: a chance to win another month with you.

Haha. Good one. I think most of these people feel like EVERY girl they date in High School is gonna be with them the rest of their life. Not true.

*Well, atleast not EVERY girl is gonna be right. Though one might be.* *Hugs Fist_of_Fury*

 

[AFK Protector]

Originally posted by Giovanni Casanova
Most y'all are off your gotdamned rockers. A one month anniversary in high school? Here's what you give a high school girl on your one month anniversary: a chance to win another month with you.

How the hell do you exactly communicate that to the girl?

I get your point, but I mean..can you really do that in rea life?

 

[Eternal]

Originally posted by AFK Protector
How the hell do you exactly communicate that to the girl?

I get your point, but I mean..can you really do that in rea life?

What Gio means is "don't give her a gift." Instead, just do nothing special.

 

[Fist_of_Fury]

Yeah...NOT obsessing over what to get is always a good thing, becuase like Eternal said "Well, atleast not EVERY girl is gonna be right." Then again "one might be"....*hugs Eternal*

 

[aznxboi]

Haha alright fellas. I'm not thinking I would be with her in my for my entire life, nor am I thinkin that Im gonna bang her then move on to the next chick. Right now, I just want to get her something around $5 probably just a card. I dont want her to be left out, since there probably 3 - 4 of her friend 1 month anniv is around ours also. I'm pretty sure those AFC'ers boyfriends going to buy those teddy bears, ballons, bracelet, or whatever thats around $20+ Which totally I dont is unnecessary at first month. But, once the 2nd, 3rd, 4th, 5th month anniv comes for me again. What Should I say to her, since I dont want to be gettin something for her every freaking month. But, what if she gets me something? That means I gotta get something back for her. Uhhh. Should I tell her ahead of time to not get me anything? Or what?

Well these days are the only days, I would get her something if I last through out the whole year and that is:
- Christmas
- Valentines day
- 6th Month together
- Her birthday
- 1 Year of being together

Correct me If I'm wrong. Because I dont want to over do it. Thanks guys.

 

[Eternal]

Originally posted by aznxboi
Haha alright fellas. I'm not thinking I would be with her in my for my entire life, nor am I thinkin that Im gonna bang her then move on to the next chick. Right now, I just want to get her something around $5 probably just a card. I dont want her to be left out, since there probably 3 - 4 of her friend 1 month anniv is around ours also. I'm pretty sure those AFC'ers boyfriends going to buy those teddy bears, ballons, bracelet, or whatever thats around $20+ Which totally I dont is unnecessary at first month. But, once the 2nd, 3rd, 4th, 5th month anniv comes for me again. What Should I say to her, since I dont want to be gettin something for her every freaking month. But, what if she gets me something? That means I gotta get something back for her. Uhhh. Should I tell her ahead of time to not get me anything? Or what?

Well these days are the only days, I would get her something if I last through out the whole year and that is:
- Christmas
- Valentines day
- 6th Month together
- Her birthday
- 1 Year of being together

Correct me If I'm wrong. Because I dont want to over do it. Thanks guys.

Don't tell her not to get you anything. For girls, that seems to be code for "you are gonna get me something huge I bet, so I'm gonna get you something decent!"

If she gets you something, just say "you shouldn't have...No, seriously."

For your list, here are appropriate gifts on those days:

- Card
- Card
- Contact me when you get to that for some kickass ideas
- Figure out what she likes, such as a dvd, stuffed animal (not a giant one), ect.
- I'll let you know what I do when that time comes.

For those "2 month, 3 month" ect, don't say anything. She will. Don't really do anything special. Hell, go to Subway with her or something. Do you celebrate the 2nd month of school? Getting a new game? Didn't think so.