“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Allright, So This Is Whats Holding Me Back

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So I realised something, the only times i've ever gotten anywhere was when I didn't have oneitis from the start. All it takes is the slighest most insignifigant amount of intrest from a girl for me to get oneitis. And when that happenes, i donno, i guess it shows really well and its impossible to hide, always killing it. So I need someone to vibe with me on this and give me some advice on not getting oneitis so fast.

You're all gonna say get hobbies, go after more than one girl blah blah sosuave sopredictible lol. I need something better, one things for shure, a quick shot of oneitis and your chances are fried. thanks
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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BBX said:
So I realised something, the only times i've ever gotten anywhere was when I didn't have oneitis from the start. All it takes is the slighest most insignifigant amount of intrest from a girl for me to get oneitis. And when that happenes, i donno, i guess it shows really well and its impossible to hide, always killing it. So I need someone to vibe with me on this and give me some advice on not getting oneitis so fast.

You're all gonna say get hobbies, go after more than one girl blah blah sosuave sopredictible lol. I need something better, one things for shure, a quick shot of oneitis and your chances are fried. thanks
In addition to getting hobbies and sarging more than one girl you need to do one other thing, learn to control your expectations and imagination. You meet someone and you immediately think 'soul mate.' Adjust your thinking to "acquaintance." Someone that you know; nothing more, nothing less. Every once in a while you hang out; nothing more, nothing less.
 
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