"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Allright, So This Is Whats Holding Me Back

BBX

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So I realised something, the only times i've ever gotten anywhere was when I didn't have oneitis from the start. All it takes is the slighest most insignifigant amount of intrest from a girl for me to get oneitis. And when that happenes, i donno, i guess it shows really well and its impossible to hide, always killing it. So I need someone to vibe with me on this and give me some advice on not getting oneitis so fast.

You're all gonna say get hobbies, go after more than one girl blah blah sosuave sopredictible lol. I need something better, one things for shure, a quick shot of oneitis and your chances are fried. thanks
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

Read more...

Francisco d'Anconia

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BBX said:
So I realised something, the only times i've ever gotten anywhere was when I didn't have oneitis from the start. All it takes is the slighest most insignifigant amount of intrest from a girl for me to get oneitis. And when that happenes, i donno, i guess it shows really well and its impossible to hide, always killing it. So I need someone to vibe with me on this and give me some advice on not getting oneitis so fast.

You're all gonna say get hobbies, go after more than one girl blah blah sosuave sopredictible lol. I need something better, one things for shure, a quick shot of oneitis and your chances are fried. thanks
In addition to getting hobbies and sarging more than one girl you need to do one other thing, learn to control your expectations and imagination. You meet someone and you immediately think 'soul mate.' Adjust your thinking to "acquaintance." Someone that you know; nothing more, nothing less. Every once in a while you hang out; nothing more, nothing less.
 
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