Dust 2 Dust
Master Don Juan
What's really sad is next week there will be another mass shooting somewhere and this guy will be forgotten.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
There are photos of his nazi tattoos on the incrl forum. Dude has a huge swastika on his bicep and stormtroopers tat on his arm.Be careful of them calling him a neo nazi. Easily just sensational headlining.
"See? Only nazis do violence despite blacks doing most in the US!"
I'm still not convinced. I don't trust anything they're showing on the news. I only trust my eyes with what I saw at the scene of the crime. The news is going to come up with anything.There are photos of his nazi tattoos on the incrl forum. Dude has a huge swastika on his bicep and stormtroopers tat on his arm.
Seems like a simp. Porn is simping, as is following thots on OnlyFans and Instagram. Going to Hooters and Twin Peaks is close to simping but not as bad. Unlike streaming porn, OnlyFans, and Instagram, Hooters and Twin Peaks are real life experiences with women. The breastaurants can be cool places to spend time with male friends."He was bluepilled as **** simping for Hooters and Twin Peak *****s and going to porn conventions.
He looks like a normie tier guy who could easily be incel. As far as ethnicity, incel status is more associated with Whites, East Asians, and South Asians. Hispanic incels are rarer.I'd classify him as an ethnic incel-murderer like you-know-who.
He could have easily gotten laid. I’m sure a 45 year old single mother who is not in great shape would have f*cked his brains out in 11 seconds, The problem is he wanted to get laid with hot, young, sexy women. Almost impossible if you are not genetically gifted.I think it's a safe bet that 75% of mass shootings wouldn't have happened if the perpetrator had gotten laid recently.
Part of Eliot Rodger's attack was at a sorority house.Never understood why incels get angry at anonymous everyday people. If you are furious at a segment of the population (young, sexy girls) wouldn’t you go attack them? Why go to a mall and attack civilians who are shopping, instead of, say, a college campus with 20 hot blonde girls?
I partially agree with this. I doubt he was meeting many 45 year old single mothers though in real life. Additionally, on swipe apps, most 45 year old single mothers probably were filtering him out due to his age.He could have easily gotten laid. I’m sure a 45 year old single mother who is not in great shape would have f*cked his brains out in 11 seconds, The problem is he wanted to get laid with hot, young, sexy women. Almost impossible if you are not genetically gifted.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
He had reached the point of hating this world and mentally blaming everyone in it. Everyone looks for a motive and explanation post event, but we will never know how he got to that point if he wasn’t in therapy, talking about, and releasing some of his hatred beforehand. All we May find are any peripheral indicators and what ‘may’ have triggered him to pull out all the stops and take his final action …Never understood why incels get angry at anonymous everyday people.
You can't distance yourself from him by claiming he's incel since some if your posts about white men sound similar to his mindset, don't you think? Most people don't go that far with it. You'd agree that it's unfair to associate you with this shooter, but yet, when you make threads about incels and mass shooters, because you feel you have enough distance to say that could not be someone like you that went too far, isn't that's the same thing?Incel status has been a key motivating factor for a lot of shootings. This one isn't seeming as much like an incel motivated one as some others.
People can attack the incel but then step back when it's attack the racist because now it starts to hit close to home.I'm still not convinced. I don't trust anything they're showing on the news. I only trust my eyes with what I saw at the scene of the crime. The news is going to come up with anything.
What?People can attack the incel but then step back when it's attack the racist because now it starts to hit close to home.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Collin County, Texas (where Allen is located) is almost 20% Asian, referring to East and South Asians. There are a lot of immigrants from India and Indian-Americans in Plano, Frisco, McKinney, and Allen.So apparently, he was targeting indians on purpose, and has something to do with the Title 42 coming to a close. Perhaps a culture war.
Considering asians were among the first of his victims, I'm not surprised. When I was looking at the footage, he was waiting in the car facing the outlet mall. As soon as the asians started walking near him, he stepped out and open fired specifically on them. He didn't even try to point his gun toward his right flank the entire time of the filming.Collin County, Texas (where Allen is located) is almost 20% Asian, referring to East and South Asians. There are a lot of immigrants from India and Indian-Americans in Plano, Frisco, McKinney, and Allen.
Considering asians were among the first of his victims, I'm not surprised. When I was looking at the footage, he was waiting in the car facing the outlet mall. As soon as the asians started walking near him, he stepped out and open fired specifically on them. He didn't even try to point his gun toward his right flank the entire time of the filming.
He only killed one indian girl. Doesn't seem he was targeting indians.So apparently, he was targeting indians on purpose, and has something to do with the Title 42 coming to a close. Perhaps a culture war.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.