Giovanni Casanova
Master Don Juan
- Joined
- Jan 5, 2002
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- Hiding in Penkitten's Linen Closet
Egg nog, anybody?
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Allen, please remove my advice posts from the DJ Bible
- Thread starter Wyldfire
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Kindly don't "kiddo" me...I am 39 years old. I'd prefer not to be referred to as "honey" either.
Moderating this site is a walk in the park compared to some sites. The subject matter isn't really controversial for the most part and the flames are quite mild. I used to run a Gender Issues forum that got several thousand posts a day. I moderated it by myself and the subject matter was highly controversial and volatile. Imagine a site more active than this one with half of the members being radical feminists and the other half being angry men that hate feminism...and with no topic being off limits. This site doesn't even allow political discussions at all because of how volatile it gets very quickly. The site I moderated alone was almost entirely political and the subject matter instilled a great amount of passion in people.
Some of the moderators here are just lazy and don't want to do the job. They would rather sacrifice the integrity and quality of the site than make even the most minimal of efforts to...well...actually moderate. Using avoidance techniques and just shutting down entire threads and discussions instead of deleting problem posts is NOT moderation. If they aren't willing to put the quality and integrity of the site first, they shouldn't be a moderator...period.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Helter Skelter
Master Don Juan
Gio,
Your arguing with wyldfire is not as exciting a cutiiepiereturns.
Whats the chance of bringing her back?
"Shut the hell up"
Am I the only one that liked her?
I'm starting a bring back cutiiepie movement
Your arguing with wyldfire is not as exciting a cutiiepiereturns.
Whats the chance of bringing her back?
"Shut the hell up"
Am I the only one that liked her?
I'm starting a bring back cutiiepie movement
No, don't. More work = More pissed off mods.Originally posted by Helter Skelter
Gio,
Your arguing with wyldfire is not as exciting a cutiiepiereturns.
Whats the chance of bringing her back?
"Shut the hell up"
Am I the only one that liked her?
I'm starting a bring back cutiiepie movement
It's not as exciting because he always loses...Originally posted by Helter Skelter
Gio,
Your arguing with wyldfire is not as exciting a cutiiepiereturns.
Whats the chance of bringing her back?
"Shut the hell up"
Am I the only one that liked her?
I'm starting a bring back cutiiepie movement
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
No, I got it right. You're is way off, though. I don't "blather", I "preach". I'm not at all ignorant...I'm quite intelligent, actually. I AM twisted. I'm not cheap or a hooker. In fact, if anything I'm probably too picky.
Listen, I don't want the pet names because I'm not here to be all cutesy and flirt. I'm here to give advice and in this forum I'm attempting to prevent this site from sinking into the sewer by being so adamant in my complaints. It would seem that a couple of the moderators like to hurl around the tired old "Attention Wh*re" charge...and I'd really rather not have anyone post stuff to me that they wouldn't say to any of the other guys on here. Don't take it personally.
MetalFortress
Master Don Juan
Wyldfire, has it ever occured to you that you have a huge pride problem? Stop being so prideful. You are not the savior of SS, and you aren't the most important member here or whatever either. You can't just leave for years and then expect everyone to cater to you when you come back. Sites grow and change. Deal with it.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
MetalFortress
Master Don Juan
It's a lot bigger than it used to be, so yeah, obviously it has.
Bigger is not always better. Quality above quantity is my motto. There USED to be substance and fresh, good material posted regularly here. Not so anymore. Most of the best contributors are gone and it's mostly a bunch of kids with overblown egos giving sh*t advice and insulting people who ask questions while offering virtually nothing in the way of advice.
MetalFortress
Master Don Juan
I'm the one that made the point in the first place, you ho. I said grow as in gotten bigger, and change as in it's not the same anymore.
So Wyldfire, why not help do something about it BY POSTING ADVICE instead of asking for your posts to be deleted out of the DJB, and starting three threads about the same topic on BH+S?
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.