Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
All you seniors dating Freshmen!
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Dimebag_Darrell
Banned
Why? Because you say it?
How normal would it be if a 24-yr-old guy dated a 20-yr-old girl?
Where I live, high schools have 5 grades: when I was in 10th grade, there was a 13th grader that was dating a 9th grader. Guess what? He was already the biggest don juan in school and this didn't negatively affect his reputation. Actually, he became even more popular, because other freshmen would look up to him for getting that nice hottie. He could have had the most beautiful seniors and juniors, but he was into her. Do you really think that it's Don Juanish not to hook up with someone just because other people think it's wrong? Read the Bible, again, then.
We're not talking about pre-pubescent girls. We're talking about post-pubescent girls.
Post a pic of your "quality girls" then.
Consider that I've never banged a girl who was more than a year younger than me, so I'm not trying to justify myself, as some of you would otherwise think. But I can't judje people that bang younger girls, because it could happen to me sometimes, since I don't find anything wrong with it.
Adone
Dimebag_Darrell
Banned
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Dimebag_Darrell
Banned
Viper
Banned
pr0teus
Don Juan
Bah...I need to study instead or I won't get anywhere decent and I'll be stuck studying somewhere mediocre, dating mediocre girls...
Viper
Banned
Hey, dude, as long as you're just not studying as an excuse to not date her and you honestly need to study.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
SlyD4rK
Don Juan
Amen.
As for Senior/Freshman dating...IMO no it's wrong...but then again...what's with 40yr old men hooking up with 20-30 yr old women?!? (Go dad! :crackup: )
PeterNorthisawesome
Banned
Goodjob you just proved that your AFC to the max, your probably the loser who exploits the unexperianced and brags about ur accomplishments. If the guy is the biggest DJ then he woud be dating a college hot model or something rather than a 15 year old who can't do anything cause IT'S ILLEGAL? that makes no sense that is not DJ at all. All I'm saying is have some dignitiy and standards when your getting a girl-friend. Anything over 18 is fair game since they are "LEGAL" officially, I just think that people should go for the challege first rather than taking the easy road. Oh yea and to answer your first quetion YEA IM RIGHT because I SAID SO so STFU and go back to your pre-pubescent girls.
"the second you go over 18 everything is fair game"........Oh, is that so? By who's standards? yours? Age is age (apples and apples). So, basically what you're sayin is: a 19 year old can't date a 13 year old because she isn't 18 yet....but then lets say, the same 13 and 19 year old have been dating for 6 years; Now she is 18 and he is 25....The way you stated it.....now it becomes morally "civil"? Think about it what you just said.
Edit: By the way...it's a hypothetical situation...I'm in college.
Even if I was in highschool...in the position to date a freshman, who are you to tell me that my "game" is sad because of that overly opinionated reason? please, don't make me laugh.
So, in order for you to consider dating a woman...they need to know how to s*uck a d!ck?
Lose that judgemental nature, man.
Usually Seniors are 17 turning 18 (still illegal age) and freshmans are 13 (illegal age). Did you know that in some states, it's legal for 16 year olds to have sex relations with 50 years old men? Think of things in a worser sense than just 2 years....
In my opinion, I believe that 5 years is max for age difference...although, I'd prefer a girl around the same age I'm willing to compromise 5 years.
There is one quirk to my rule....you have to be atleast 14 to consider the 5 year max rule.
Hire a hooker to lose virginity comes from being desperate. Who's to say that the person who is dating someone a few years younger than he is desperate? That's too judgemental.
PeterNorthisawesome
Banned
"after high school 18 dating a 25 old is fine because they are SEXUALLY developed or matured."
I know this is highschool. One thing I can agree on is that yes...they are both legal.
But age is age. Sure, it seems more correct now that they are legal.....I wasn't referring to a sexual relationship...just a dating relationship.....but anyways, sexually developed?....what do you mean? ....sexually developed can mean a few things."
Did you know that the law in some states permits 16 year olds to be sexually free...therefore....he or she has the right to date any person he or she wants... he or she is legal, can do whatever he or she wants and is still in highschool....lets say this 16 year old wants to date a 29 year old....do you say that it's "wrong"....because like you said..."she or he isn't developed sexually..."...so is it wrong?" I mean, they are legal by law, right.
"Also they are old enough to make decisions and is hopefully educated enough to know the consequences and risks of STDs and Sex."
You learn about STD's in 7th grade....but you don't seem to be concerned about them until you mature a bit.
Watch it with calling me "buddy."
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
AC/DC
Master Don Juan
It's WRONG to you. It's not WRONG to other people. I don't "take advantage" of anything. The last 3 girls I've dated were 20.
Mind your own business. And next time, shut the hell up.
The Real Ice Man
Don Juan
Well, as I see it, I guess it depends on the girl. You have to judge. I mean, think about if you want people to associate you with that girl. I know you shouldn't care, but you have a rep to keep. If you hook up with anyone, you're seen as easy.
I recently read Pook's 15 lessons. I think that's what it's labeled.
Anyway, he says that you should switch places with the really hot girl, if you are a DJ. When I say this, I mean, that you can have anyone, so you should pick quality.
I'm not saying that freshman aren't quality, but most of them aren't worth the trouble. They become clingy, and then you have to get rid of them, and murder is illegal in most places, so you have to break their hearts.
As for me, I try not to break hearts. Sometimes it can't be helped.
1. Good luck hooking up with a college hot model when you are a junior. Expecially if you're just a 7, like him. But you probably resemble Brad Pitt and have tons of women. This explains why you are here complaining about guys fùcking younger girls, while he's at home banging some hottie.
2. You have to understand that illegal is not the same thing as wrong. When I was 17, I was banging a 16. In some States, this is illegal. Was I wrong? Yes? No? Who cares?
3. You think people should go for a challenge? Good, go for a challenge, rather than coming to a seduction forum. You sound already pretty good with ladies.
4. Look up in a dictionary the definition of pre-pubescent, because you sound pretty ignorant when you define 16-yrs-old's as pre-pubescent.
5. Stop giving so much importance to people on this forum, you don't know me, AC/DC or anyone else personally, so quit trying to be the universal judje.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.