"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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All she wants to talk about is sex... all she wants to do is have sex.

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So I took a very normal girl, and turned her into a nympho.

Now trust me, I'm DEFINATELY not complaining... but... I'm very traditional when it comes to dating... and now I'm wanting to have more 'normal' dates than she is. :p

All this fox wants to do is hump like a rabit. And when I'm away, she calls me up and gets upset when I talk about anything else.

Odd post, I guess...
... so anyone know any remedies to this? Or will it pass with time once she gets bored with it? If she does...
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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If you feel she is too much for you, you can pass her to me. I can use nympho anyday. :) :)
 
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fuk her brains out!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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sexy_kuta said:
fuk her brains out!
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But really... how is that gonna make her a normal girlfriend I can introduce to my friends without worrying about 'em noticing she's got her hand down my pants.

Btw, been seeing her for 8 months now...
 
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Dude, you should totally suggest that you two bring in a third chick. Sounds to me like she'd be cool with it :up:.
 
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Have you tried flat out talking to her about it? If not, she might not know you're thinking like this. If you have, and she's still fiending for it, Just don't have sex with her everytime she wants it. It'll build sexual tension and it will make the times you actually let it happen much better for both of you. AND it gives you control in the situation.
 
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The only way that she would be inspired to change is if she sees value in you in areas other than sex, some other reason for her to hang around. If you start withholding the good stuff, she'll more than likely go elsewhere if sex is the only reason that she's hanging around.
 
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Yeah Francisco... for some reason that really does feel like the truth. :-(
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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There's nothing wrong with a guy wanting more than just sex. It may not be typical but that's not necessarily a bad thing.
 
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so tired of having sex... satisfy her thirst or else she might force to drink to someone else....
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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