"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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All she wants to talk about is sex... all she wants to do is have sex.

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So I took a very normal girl, and turned her into a nympho.

Now trust me, I'm DEFINATELY not complaining... but... I'm very traditional when it comes to dating... and now I'm wanting to have more 'normal' dates than she is. :p

All this fox wants to do is hump like a rabit. And when I'm away, she calls me up and gets upset when I talk about anything else.

Odd post, I guess...
... so anyone know any remedies to this? Or will it pass with time once she gets bored with it? If she does...
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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If you feel she is too much for you, you can pass her to me. I can use nympho anyday. :) :)
 

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fuk her brains out!
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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sexy_kuta said:
fuk her brains out!
:box:

But really... how is that gonna make her a normal girlfriend I can introduce to my friends without worrying about 'em noticing she's got her hand down my pants.

Btw, been seeing her for 8 months now...
 

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Dude, you should totally suggest that you two bring in a third chick. Sounds to me like she'd be cool with it :up:.
 

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Have you tried flat out talking to her about it? If not, she might not know you're thinking like this. If you have, and she's still fiending for it, Just don't have sex with her everytime she wants it. It'll build sexual tension and it will make the times you actually let it happen much better for both of you. AND it gives you control in the situation.
 

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The only way that she would be inspired to change is if she sees value in you in areas other than sex, some other reason for her to hang around. If you start withholding the good stuff, she'll more than likely go elsewhere if sex is the only reason that she's hanging around.
 

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Yeah Francisco... for some reason that really does feel like the truth. :-(
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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There's nothing wrong with a guy wanting more than just sex. It may not be typical but that's not necessarily a bad thing.
 

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so tired of having sex... satisfy her thirst or else she might force to drink to someone else....
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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