"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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All she wants to do is Fvk!!

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Night Owl

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The problem is you are not satisfying her properly in the first place !!

If you have fck her senseless in the first place, she shouldn't be able to walk, let alone want more for at least a day.

Brush up on your sex techniques as I think you are missing something...

Jump on her - Stick it in, push a few times, whip it out and wipe is not making love !!
 

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Wait..
im not complaining you guys..

I just want to know what are the side effects, and if this stops what would i be facing? emotionally from her etc.

i know if i stop givin her the pleasure another dude may step in, which i dont want..obviously!

Bucket: I dont nut everytime, i nut twice a day and make her nut every time we bang. thats the only way i stay ready for the next rounds.

Questions:
1: Is it possible that women lose feeling in their vjayjays after too much s3x?
2: Why is it that sometimes nowadays she is still dry!!!! but she's turned on. no natural lube..how do i fix that?


I like the idea of vaseline, because i was only starting to chafe only when she is DRY but still wants it.
she says im an animal in bed and thats why she wants so much. so she wants it lots, but when she's dry i cant even get in coz it feels like metal on metal..


Rollo: Cmon bru! i know you've been thru this problem before, how did you solve it without getting married to the woman! lol

Again, im not complaining, ive just never fvkd someone 12 times a day.

my problem with that is:
1. i wake up tired since im up at 3am fvking every morning. hence it affects my work
2. i cant go to the gym as much coz im fvkin her, even though they say its a workout, its not really as good as a gym one.
3. My groin muscles are killin me.
4. i cant say NO, but i cant say YES either..DAMNIT!

advice!?
 

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You really did it 12 times in day? You're going to get real tired of this real soon. If your c-ck is burning I think it means you need to take a break.

Only one time in my life did I do it 5 times in a day and even that required a couple days recovery. There will come a point when you won't even want it from her if you try to maintain this pace.

It's pretty new right now, why ruin it?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Sounds like this is the first time you've had a girl like this. Well, I gotta say is enjoy it, just remember at one point the sex will not be as exciting anymore, so enjoy while it last.
 

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slickaz said:
Bucket: I dont nut everytime, i nut twice a day and make her nut every time we bang. thats the only way i stay ready for the next rounds.
Okay. I was going to say I don't know anyone that has *** 12 times in a single day. Some girls don't get as wet as others, but you're going to tell me she's mostly dry and having a bunch of orgasms? Are you using a condom? I know that if you use a condom long enough it dries up at gets weird, but just buy a bottle of lube (water-based) if you're having issues. That should make it better for everyone and won't rub the skin off your **** quite as much from all the friction.
 

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Water based..what about something like KY warming? that will give her some feelin too right?

My question is this:

Ive noticed that when we started this thing, she used to get wet on touch, now it seems she just doesnt get wet at all. like she does, but its HARDLY the amount needed to get it lubed for entry.

what is the problem here? how do fix it? is that natural? because we've done it SO much that its just gone dry and needs a couple of days off to recoup?

I use rubber, but even that doesnt help. We go for about 1.5 to 2 hours on a good round. a quickie is usually 30 to 45minutes.

She just doesnt get enough but i LOVE that about her, but! i need to know how to keep up.
im eating lots of multivits and magnesium and blueberrys apples etc. as i always do and i go to the gym lots so my stamina is up. I am always ready to go except my johnson is chafed and the friction is hell!

im plannin on getting some water based or KY today to try it out and see if the lube can help ease the friction and meanwhile also cut down the number of times we go at it.

id like to cut it down to maybe 3 to 4 times a day.

yday we did it 9 times. and thats a school night. uptil 5am.
and hence this morning im on 2 redbulls at work trying to stay awake at m eetings.lol
 
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slickaz said:
We go for about 1.5 to 2 hours on a good round.
Uh, 12 times a day and lets say 3 of those are 1.5 to 2 hours, that's 4.5 to 6 hours a day sexing NOT including quickies? Something doesn't sound right. No offense but are you employed? This whole scenerio is sounding more and more like exaggeration now.
 

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slickaz said:
Ive noticed that when we started this thing, she used to get wet on touch, now it seems she just doesnt get wet at all. like she does, but its HARDLY the amount needed to get it lubed for entry.

what is the problem here? how do fix it? is that natural? because we've done it SO much that its just gone dry and needs a couple of days off to recoup?
How old are you two? I can't even remember wanting to have sex this much when I was 16.

Are you actually f-cking for hours or is there some loooong foreplay going on? I guess it's just me, I've never had the desire to have sex for hours on end all day long, 30-40 mins and I'm good....

Obviously it's becoming excessive if she doesn't get wet, and your c-ck is chaffing. At this point it sounds more like ego stroking than a genuine concern on your part.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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slickaz said:
Water based..what about something like KY warming? that will give her some feelin too right?

My question is this:

Ive noticed that when we started this thing, she used to get wet on touch, now it seems she just doesnt get wet at all. like she does, but its HARDLY the amount needed to get it lubed for entry.

what is the problem here? how do fix it? is that natural? because we've done it SO much that its just gone dry and needs a couple of days off to recoup?

I use rubber, but even that doesnt help. We go for about 1.5 to 2 hours on a good round. a quickie is usually 30 to 45minutes.

She just doesnt get enough but i LOVE that about her, but! i need to know how to keep up.
im eating lots of multivits and magnesium and blueberrys apples etc. as i always do and i go to the gym lots so my stamina is up. I am always ready to go except my johnson is chafed and the friction is hell!

im plannin on getting some water based or KY today to try it out and see if the lube can help ease the friction and meanwhile also cut down the number of times we go at it.

id like to cut it down to maybe 3 to 4 times a day.

yday we did it 9 times. and thats a school night. uptil 5am.
and hence this morning im on 2 redbulls at work trying to stay awake at m eetings.lol
Couple of things.....

First, too much of a good thing, is not a good thing.

And secondly, no normal rational person wants to have sex 6 times a day every day, let alone 12 times. And she doesn't even get wet all the time now? That my friend is her having some sort of mental issue with sex. It's not physically pleasurable for her, she just feels the need to have sex that many times for whatever reason in her MIND> Whether she has daddy issues, insecurities, needs validation that she is hot, who knows. But there is something going on there.

My advice as a man would to simply tell her "look, I love sexing you, but this is insane. I'm killing myself by having sex this much, and its affecting my work, my sleep, my workouts, we need to slow down". Any rationale sane woman would understand.

Good luck with this one. I saw the pic, shes hot, but I don't think she's all there. :)
 

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slickaz said:
I use rubber, but even that doesnt help. We go for about 1.5 to 2 hours on a good round. a quickie is usually 30 to 45minutes.
Dude im sorry but thats like 7 or 8 hours a day fvcking. I dont really see how that is possible. And if it really is what you are doing, it doesnt sound enjoyable in the least.
 

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Spin another plate. Or several.

Hear me out, I'm not trying to kill you off in a year :D

Whether you have other plates or not, you are clearly spending too much time with this woman -- she stays over or you stay over at night, you have nooners, quickies, and sex at all times of the day. I'm willing to guess you have no other plates because (and I'm not saying this is a bad thing!) she wants sex so much.

With another plate you essentially book time away from this girl and can get some time away from the sex.

The problem I can imagine is that you might be less willing to have as much sex with any other plates. This can be fixed by having more girls on the side and making sex with them a once-a-week thing (or whatever). That frees up your time from S and doesn't leave you with a swollen d1ck

ps: I have no idea why I'm giving you advice. These stories always piss me off hah!
 
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