Da Realist
Master Don Juan
Drink more water.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Okay. I was going to say I don't know anyone that has *** 12 times in a single day. Some girls don't get as wet as others, but you're going to tell me she's mostly dry and having a bunch of orgasms? Are you using a condom? I know that if you use a condom long enough it dries up at gets weird, but just buy a bottle of lube (water-based) if you're having issues. That should make it better for everyone and won't rub the skin off your **** quite as much from all the friction.slickaz said:Bucket: I dont nut everytime, i nut twice a day and make her nut every time we bang. thats the only way i stay ready for the next rounds.
Uh, 12 times a day and lets say 3 of those are 1.5 to 2 hours, that's 4.5 to 6 hours a day sexing NOT including quickies? Something doesn't sound right. No offense but are you employed? This whole scenerio is sounding more and more like exaggeration now.slickaz said:We go for about 1.5 to 2 hours on a good round.
How old are you two? I can't even remember wanting to have sex this much when I was 16.slickaz said:Ive noticed that when we started this thing, she used to get wet on touch, now it seems she just doesnt get wet at all. like she does, but its HARDLY the amount needed to get it lubed for entry.
what is the problem here? how do fix it? is that natural? because we've done it SO much that its just gone dry and needs a couple of days off to recoup?
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Couple of things.....slickaz said:Water based..what about something like KY warming? that will give her some feelin too right?
My question is this:
Ive noticed that when we started this thing, she used to get wet on touch, now it seems she just doesnt get wet at all. like she does, but its HARDLY the amount needed to get it lubed for entry.
what is the problem here? how do fix it? is that natural? because we've done it SO much that its just gone dry and needs a couple of days off to recoup?
I use rubber, but even that doesnt help. We go for about 1.5 to 2 hours on a good round. a quickie is usually 30 to 45minutes.
She just doesnt get enough but i LOVE that about her, but! i need to know how to keep up.
im eating lots of multivits and magnesium and blueberrys apples etc. as i always do and i go to the gym lots so my stamina is up. I am always ready to go except my johnson is chafed and the friction is hell!
im plannin on getting some water based or KY today to try it out and see if the lube can help ease the friction and meanwhile also cut down the number of times we go at it.
id like to cut it down to maybe 3 to 4 times a day.
yday we did it 9 times. and thats a school night. uptil 5am.
and hence this morning im on 2 redbulls at work trying to stay awake at m eetings.lol
Dude im sorry but thats like 7 or 8 hours a day fvcking. I dont really see how that is possible. And if it really is what you are doing, it doesnt sound enjoyable in the least.slickaz said:I use rubber, but even that doesnt help. We go for about 1.5 to 2 hours on a good round. a quickie is usually 30 to 45minutes.