"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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All she wants is $??

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I dont know but my girl... in a way i can tell that she really really likes me and is into me but in another way is like i cant really say that she is into me at a 100 percent i can only say that sometimes.

Like She be telling me how she doesnt like (as getting along) with this 2 individuals but yet they talk all the time and have a nice good time she even let one of them borrow some book, and she just got it back today on my face and she didnt tell me nothing about it, i said nothing and ignored the whole thing.

My instincs are telling me that she is not really digging me that much and that she will cheat on me sooner or later.

Then i also think that she is with me just for the money, she knows that i got money but I REALLY DONT!!:confused: i just act like i do like i took her out i paid for everything i bought her some foorwear, and today we went to the store to buy some pills for cramps (she is on her period) and i had to pay for it, but she also kept my fukin' change! i mean i look like i got money cause of the house the cars the clothes and the way i make it seem but i dont, and im starting to think that thats what she really wants of me.

What do i do here yall, i need some advice
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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and no she has never asked me direcly for money,i always offer it to her, like she'll say "im broke" i got no money and ill give her some, when we go out i always pay for everything.

I do this cause i really like this girl but damn this gotta stop man, i need to this money to spend on my personal wants.
 
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just stop buying her things for awhile- i mean her pills and all that. The see how she reacts to you. I'm not telling you to ice it completely on spending money on her but just a lil less show her you care without the big spending-
 
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Originally posted by Blackstar
I dont know but my girl... in a way i can tell that she really really likes me and is into me but in another way is like i cant really say that she is into me at a 100 percent i can only say that sometimes.

Like She be telling me how she doesnt like (as getting along) with this 2 individuals but yet they talk all the time and have a nice good time she even let one of them borrow some book, and she just got it back today on my face and she didnt tell me nothing about it, i said nothing and ignored the whole thing.

My instincs are telling me that she is not really digging me that much and that she will cheat on me sooner or later.

Then i also think that she is with me just for the money, she knows that i got money but I REALLY DONT!!:confused: i just act like i do like i took her out i paid for everything i bought her some foorwear, and today we went to the store to buy some pills for cramps (she is on her period) and i had to pay for it, but she also kept my fukin' change! i mean i look like i got money cause of the house the cars the clothes and the way i make it seem but i dont, and im starting to think that thats what she really wants of me.

What do i do here yall, i need some advice
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Stop buying stuff for her. Don't buy her anything. You are paying for her affection. That is the only thing she sees when you buy her stuff and when you let her get away with her second class behavior. She's not used to hearing "No" from you. I suggest you start implementing that word when dealing with her. Grow some ballz and put her in check. Hopefully she's not already cheating on you. You need to cut her off and let her prove herself to you.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Doesn't the DJ bible tell you not to be desparate and paying for a woman's approval?
 
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Originally posted by PeeGee
Doesn't the DJ bible tell you not to be desparate and paying for a woman's approval?
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exactly..stop actin like sucha hoe ... u gotta d*ck dont u !? use that to get your affection
Read the DJ Bible
 
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