"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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All she has to say is "Nothing"!!

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I noticed that most guys got a problem with closing up .

Well lately accidentilly ive noticed that most of my success have come when while talking to a girl , asking her what she is doing later etc... and she says "nothing";
Come on now thats as good as it gets for any man in planet earth to get the girl, after she says "Nothing" you got 1000000000001 options, ways, forms. etc... that u have to close the deal and actually going out on a date with her.

Thats why when i hear and read that " i asked her what she is doing later and she said nothing" and then they still dont get with the female, i just can't help it but to laugh.

Just remember if she really aint doing nothing later on, and u ask her to hang out with you , and she says no, there is something definetly wrong there.

When she says "Nothing" you got all the power, the bases are loaded with u at bat down by 1 run, there are 3 seconds left in the game and you are down by 1 and got an open lay up, you got a 10 yrd FG with 2 secs left in the 4th quarter down by 1, i could keep going on and on and on but that is just in the position that you are in when she says "NOTHING"!!
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Thanx for the feedback yall, i guess it most be a bad tip or something.

Oh well, mods u can delete this thread.
 

xi phi pi

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No, it's not a bad tip. People probably just are too lazy to acknowledge a tip.

I say, keep it open and alive mods.
 

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It's not a bad tip at all. I've just found that if a girl says nothing, she usually doesn't want to do anything.
 

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its not a bad tip its a great tip, nothing to add. lots of lurkers here i guess
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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You know what, this is a very good tip. I myself do this alot of times too.
 
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