thejuice
Master Don Juan
I finally have a chance to post about my weekend...and im somewhat curious about it
Let me explain...
Last saturday, i went bowling with a coworker after work (it was midnight when we got off). Yes, it was fun but not many sparks had been flying yet. That was alright for the moment because other people were bowling with us. It was more of a group activity than anything else
Anyways...
The bowling alley closed at around 1:30 so we all left, each in our own car. She needed a ride home so she left with me. Before i could drive her home, i was flashed for a race. It was a Prelude (i drive a turbo eclipse)...so i followed the car to a secluded area so we could drag. We did, and i was pretty sure her beat was as fast as mine
Pure adrenaline! She had a smile on her face and i could tell she didnt want to go home. She wanted to keep on cruising around. Hmm...is anybody else thinking what i am?
At this point i assumed a little control and told her i was driving her home. She begged me not to because she "just didnt want to be home". Unfortunately for her, i insisted and had her beg to stay with me
I just wanted her to value the time with me and weigh her opinion. Seems good so far
It is now around 2:30 am and were both in my car looking for somewhere to go. Anything open? Not that we knew of...so i parked in front of my house and talked. This is where it got interesting
The whole night, we werent really talking with fluidness. It was more on and off conversation due to bowling and racing
But here, I finally got a chance to talk to her and pick her apart. It was fluid conversation and i liked it. She also kept touching my arm when i poked fun at her. Every time, shed spend longer periods holding my bicep I made it harder so shed feel it. hehe. I also noticed she kept touching her hair, fixing it. I quickly took advantage and said that her hair is getting messy. Her hair was fine but i wanted a legitemate reason to touch her hair (that is how i proceed for the kiss test)
I was stumped with the results! She passed it but then she failed it, and then she passed it again, and so on. Should i kiss her, i asked myself? I had no clue...but i wanted a risk. I tried getting closer to her to kiss her so it wouldnt be awkward traveling far for a smooch but my car is shaped so that it isnt easily done
I didnt kiss her. Damn
It was now 4:00 am. Time flies!
so...
We then went to a dennys to get coffee and a snack. We talked there for about an hour until i told her it was late and i was sleepy. I wanted to take her home but she insisted otherwise
This is when i got compulsive and just drove somewhere, anywhere. There was nowhere i could go that would be fun, and well, most imposrtantly open at that hour in the morning
I drove and ended up at the beach in santa monica near the pier. We walked around and just looked at the sights. I wasnt in the mood for any "moves" so i kept my distance. I WAS sleepy and tired
It was until this bum followed her that i put my arm around her and told her shed be safe with me. We walked away quickly to my car and finally went home
I got her home a little bit after 7 am. I cant say it wasnt fun because it was but i didnt do any of the things i wanted to do like go for a freaking kiss!
So here lies my problem, i think i ****ed it up by spending too much time with her and not ending it when it was at its peak. I let it go down as i was quickly growing drowsy. Stupid move! You dont have to tell me, i already know
My next move is calling her tonight to make plans for tomorow. A movie perhaps? Ill figure it out...I just want your guys' (girls)opinion on what happened. Its easier to learn from mistakes than from victories...which is my motive for this post
thx guys
- thejuice
Let me explain...
Last saturday, i went bowling with a coworker after work (it was midnight when we got off). Yes, it was fun but not many sparks had been flying yet. That was alright for the moment because other people were bowling with us. It was more of a group activity than anything else
Anyways...
The bowling alley closed at around 1:30 so we all left, each in our own car. She needed a ride home so she left with me. Before i could drive her home, i was flashed for a race. It was a Prelude (i drive a turbo eclipse)...so i followed the car to a secluded area so we could drag. We did, and i was pretty sure her beat was as fast as mine
Pure adrenaline! She had a smile on her face and i could tell she didnt want to go home. She wanted to keep on cruising around. Hmm...is anybody else thinking what i am?
At this point i assumed a little control and told her i was driving her home. She begged me not to because she "just didnt want to be home". Unfortunately for her, i insisted and had her beg to stay with me
I just wanted her to value the time with me and weigh her opinion. Seems good so far
It is now around 2:30 am and were both in my car looking for somewhere to go. Anything open? Not that we knew of...so i parked in front of my house and talked. This is where it got interesting
The whole night, we werent really talking with fluidness. It was more on and off conversation due to bowling and racing
But here, I finally got a chance to talk to her and pick her apart. It was fluid conversation and i liked it. She also kept touching my arm when i poked fun at her. Every time, shed spend longer periods holding my bicep I made it harder so shed feel it. hehe. I also noticed she kept touching her hair, fixing it. I quickly took advantage and said that her hair is getting messy. Her hair was fine but i wanted a legitemate reason to touch her hair (that is how i proceed for the kiss test)
I was stumped with the results! She passed it but then she failed it, and then she passed it again, and so on. Should i kiss her, i asked myself? I had no clue...but i wanted a risk. I tried getting closer to her to kiss her so it wouldnt be awkward traveling far for a smooch but my car is shaped so that it isnt easily done
I didnt kiss her. Damn
It was now 4:00 am. Time flies!
so...
We then went to a dennys to get coffee and a snack. We talked there for about an hour until i told her it was late and i was sleepy. I wanted to take her home but she insisted otherwise
This is when i got compulsive and just drove somewhere, anywhere. There was nowhere i could go that would be fun, and well, most imposrtantly open at that hour in the morning
I drove and ended up at the beach in santa monica near the pier. We walked around and just looked at the sights. I wasnt in the mood for any "moves" so i kept my distance. I WAS sleepy and tired
It was until this bum followed her that i put my arm around her and told her shed be safe with me. We walked away quickly to my car and finally went home
I got her home a little bit after 7 am. I cant say it wasnt fun because it was but i didnt do any of the things i wanted to do like go for a freaking kiss!
So here lies my problem, i think i ****ed it up by spending too much time with her and not ending it when it was at its peak. I let it go down as i was quickly growing drowsy. Stupid move! You dont have to tell me, i already know
My next move is calling her tonight to make plans for tomorow. A movie perhaps? Ill figure it out...I just want your guys' (girls)opinion on what happened. Its easier to learn from mistakes than from victories...which is my motive for this post
thx guys
- thejuice