The one thing I need to work on is approaching more. But with experiences like I described it kinda takes the “want to” out of it for me. I just don’t have the want to, to approach 10 women and line up 5 dates a week. I don’t have time and I really don’t want to even if I had time. I spin plates but when plates find out about other plates they drop off, they don’t get jealous or competitive like is described on here. So I keep it a secret that I’m dating multiple women because letting that be known has backfired on me previous times.Yes, I see.
Well, who's the expert judge on being alpha or beta here?
Not me, not you, I don't know the answer.
You did a one text asking reason then stopped and you did a brave walkup/say Hi in person and left it at that.
Seems like you have some leadership communication skills but on the other hand because this was a romantic interest the guys here would not do that extra text and that walkup when they saw her?
I don't know Robert, I wanted to think about whatever answer you gave if you happened to see my curious post.
You seem down-to-earth. I wouldn't call you beta but I'm newly redpilled.