"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

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All most women Lesbians?

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Or is it just the ones Im finding? One chick sounded good and well Im not changing my mind in regards to her. However, all the chicks I met are lesbians not full blown but have had encounters and still at some point would not mind it if the right situation came about..

Im just wondering if most women really are lesbian and I dont mean that in a bad way or mean way. If I have a girl and she is bi (still gay) and she wanted to know if its cool she bring a friend (another chick) along and I could either A)-Participate B)-Watch.. I would answer, I choose A and she better not look like a butch otherwise, deal is dead..

So just wondering. I was taken aback when this chcik I was seeing did not seem lesbie but when she started talking I thought damn, she is a lesbian, not full blown but she is..

your opinion..
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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LOL.. so far, Acq is right.. So far all the women I met are lesbies..I was taken aback by this latest one. Like I said tho, its fine with me, no she cannot have a sexual relationship other than me, she can bring one home for my approval and ill give the green light.
 

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There's a big difference between a bisexual party girl and a real lesbian. Typically, a lesbian couple, like any gay couple, will have a "man" and a "woman." The "male" half of the lesbian couple is usually a lumberjack-looking bull dyke who will only ever be with other women. The other half, who plays the female side, can probably go either way. Often they have had a traumatic experience with men in their past, like rape or abuse, making them uncomfortable about men in general. They also are often overweight, and dykes are a lot more forgiving about that than men.

Dykes are easy to spot, but the more feminine bisexual/lesbo girls are not. Fwiw, it seems like every secret lesbo I know played college sports. Going to an all-girl's college is another tipoff. And if there is a woman out there who played sports for an all-girls college and is not a lesbian, I have never met her.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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No disrespect here but, where is the proof?
when I was in college we designed a test for females to take, the results were more than obvious: 85% of girls have regular fantasies about sex with other women. 60 or so % of girls either had sex with a girl or at least made out with them.
the test was spread on forums and there were 100's of participants.

from personal experience: the hotter the girl, the more bi curious she is.
 

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Acq said:
when I was in college we designed a test for females to take, the results were more than obvious: 85% of girls have regular fantasies about sex with other women. 60 or so % of girls either had sex with a girl or at least made out with them.
the test was spread on forums and there were 100's of participants.

from personal experience: the hotter the girl, the more bi curious she is.
That's interesting.

Xmas day a female friend of ours invited us over for dinner. So the wife and I went. About 15 people there.

Got our food and sat down with some other people to eat. Then I noticed these two guys in their 60's who were obviously a couple. As BB said above, there is a male and a female in each of these relationships. One guy had this little vest on that had little jewels n things on it. Talked like a girl almost. His partner tried to act alpha when I talked to him. After dinner they basically cuddled up on the couch and watched the Cardinals game. So, it does seem as though one will be dominate and the other will not.

I don't understand that stuff to be truthful. Probably a good thing as it's none of my business anyway. To each his/her own.
 

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You're saying this like it's a bad thing...

rtrev64 said:
Or is it just the ones Im finding? One chick sounded good and well Im not changing my mind in regards to her. However, all the chicks I met are lesbians not full blown but have had encounters and still at some point would not mind it if the right situation came about..

your opinion..
 

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I don't understand that stuff to be truthful. Probably a good thing as it's none of my business anyway. To each his/her own.
its quite simple, if u want to know of course, the "receiver" is usually more feminine than the "giver" who can be extreme alpha (I said "can" be).

in the gay world the roles are devided like this, plus min ofc.

some gay guys are "always" the receivers, some are always the givers, and some guys are both, depending on the partner.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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davewe said:
You're saying this like it's a bad thing...
I also said, "Im just wondering if most women really are lesbian and I dont mean that in a bad way or mean way"

So far, all the women I dated are lesbies or super curious and I think they would do the deed if the stars alighned right. One in particular I was dating would tell me, she is lesbian, that girl is lesbian and I was thinking, it takes one to know one..LOL..
 

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rtrev64 said:
I also said, "Im just wondering if most women really are lesbian and I dont mean that in a bad way or mean way"

So far, all the women I dated are lesbies or super curious and I think they would do the deed if the stars alighned right. One in particular I was dating would tell me, she is lesbian, that girl is lesbian and I was thinking, it takes one to know one..LOL..
Johnny Soporno has a saying, "All women are bisexual from the waist up" which I think is mostly true. No, I don't think most women are lesbians, but bisexual or bisexually curious - sure.

I can't remember the last time I had a relationship (including my 2 marriages) with a woman who hadn't had at least 1 gf in her past. Personally, I think the sexual curiosity of such women is a good thing.
 

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Go on FB and you will see every girl has a picture of them squeezing a girls ass, boobs, or kisisng their cheek or even a close intimate moment with their heads together or even kissing on the lips.

It kind of turns me off tbh. I saw my GF has a few of those photo's and sort of makes me sick a little bit...
 

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Bible_Belt said:
There's a big difference between a bisexual party girl and a real lesbian. Typically, a lesbian couple, like any gay couple, will have a "man" and a "woman." The "male" half of the lesbian couple is usually a lumberjack-looking bull dyke who will only ever be with other women. The other half, who plays the female side, can probably go either way. Often they have had a traumatic experience with men in their past, like rape or abuse, making them uncomfortable about men in general. They also are often overweight, and dykes are a lot more forgiving about that than men.

Dykes are easy to spot, but the more feminine bisexual/lesbo girls are not. Fwiw, it seems like every secret lesbo I know played college sports. Going to an all-girl's college is another tipoff. And if there is a woman out there who played sports for an all-girls college and is not a lesbian, I have never met her.
This has got to be one of the funniest damn things I have ever read. I particularly like "lumberjack-looking bull dyke" - poetry.
 

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davewe said:
Johnny Soporno has a saying, "All women are bisexual from the waist up" which I think is mostly true. No, I don't think most women are lesbians, but bisexual or bisexually curious - sure.

I can't remember the last time I had a relationship (including my 2 marriages) with a woman who hadn't had at least 1 gf in her past. Personally, I think the sexual curiosity of such women is a good thing.
I agree, I used to be against it but all the girls I've dated have lipped locked, tongued and all but it does not bother me anymore. Like I told my girl, if she is interested in a girl and wants to do her thats ok, as long as Im in the picture or even watching will be cool..im not against it. I wont encourage it unless im drunk off my ass but it is what it is..:rockon:
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Boxer said:
Go on FB and you will see every girl has a picture of them squeezing a girls ass, boobs, or kisisng their cheek or even a close intimate moment with their heads together or even kissing on the lips.

It kind of turns me off tbh. I saw my GF has a few of those photo's and sort of makes me sick a little bit...

I think it's a huge turnoff. I don't want to see any of it and if my gf has any bisexual curiosity she should keep it to herself.
 

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Well, I´d just like to make a quick point, since this thread doesn´t help anyone attracting more women, (wich is the primary goal of this forum).

It´s totally irrelevant if women take slutty pictures, or tell guys that are bi, in most cases is just to turn men on and because they think it makes them cool. You know (or you should) that women constantly lie...
This doesn´t mean that most women would fall in love or would like to have sex with another women.

Actually if you do a quick research, with true professional researchers like Alfred Kinsey, you will find that there are more bisexual men than bisexual women. And that even straight men with their constant sexual urges are much more likely to haver
gay experiences than women who are far more in control of themselves...

This is just what you get, when you associate women constant hugging and kissing, with lesbian porn and mtv.... You conclude that most women are bi...
 
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