"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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All most women Lesbians?

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Or is it just the ones Im finding? One chick sounded good and well Im not changing my mind in regards to her. However, all the chicks I met are lesbians not full blown but have had encounters and still at some point would not mind it if the right situation came about..

Im just wondering if most women really are lesbian and I dont mean that in a bad way or mean way. If I have a girl and she is bi (still gay) and she wanted to know if its cool she bring a friend (another chick) along and I could either A)-Participate B)-Watch.. I would answer, I choose A and she better not look like a butch otherwise, deal is dead..

So just wondering. I was taken aback when this chcik I was seeing did not seem lesbie but when she started talking I thought damn, she is a lesbian, not full blown but she is..

your opinion..
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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LOL.. so far, Acq is right.. So far all the women I met are lesbies..I was taken aback by this latest one. Like I said tho, its fine with me, no she cannot have a sexual relationship other than me, she can bring one home for my approval and ill give the green light.
 

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There's a big difference between a bisexual party girl and a real lesbian. Typically, a lesbian couple, like any gay couple, will have a "man" and a "woman." The "male" half of the lesbian couple is usually a lumberjack-looking bull dyke who will only ever be with other women. The other half, who plays the female side, can probably go either way. Often they have had a traumatic experience with men in their past, like rape or abuse, making them uncomfortable about men in general. They also are often overweight, and dykes are a lot more forgiving about that than men.

Dykes are easy to spot, but the more feminine bisexual/lesbo girls are not. Fwiw, it seems like every secret lesbo I know played college sports. Going to an all-girl's college is another tipoff. And if there is a woman out there who played sports for an all-girls college and is not a lesbian, I have never met her.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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No disrespect here but, where is the proof?
when I was in college we designed a test for females to take, the results were more than obvious: 85% of girls have regular fantasies about sex with other women. 60 or so % of girls either had sex with a girl or at least made out with them.
the test was spread on forums and there were 100's of participants.

from personal experience: the hotter the girl, the more bi curious she is.
 

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Acq said:
when I was in college we designed a test for females to take, the results were more than obvious: 85% of girls have regular fantasies about sex with other women. 60 or so % of girls either had sex with a girl or at least made out with them.
the test was spread on forums and there were 100's of participants.

from personal experience: the hotter the girl, the more bi curious she is.
That's interesting.

Xmas day a female friend of ours invited us over for dinner. So the wife and I went. About 15 people there.

Got our food and sat down with some other people to eat. Then I noticed these two guys in their 60's who were obviously a couple. As BB said above, there is a male and a female in each of these relationships. One guy had this little vest on that had little jewels n things on it. Talked like a girl almost. His partner tried to act alpha when I talked to him. After dinner they basically cuddled up on the couch and watched the Cardinals game. So, it does seem as though one will be dominate and the other will not.

I don't understand that stuff to be truthful. Probably a good thing as it's none of my business anyway. To each his/her own.
 

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You're saying this like it's a bad thing...

rtrev64 said:
Or is it just the ones Im finding? One chick sounded good and well Im not changing my mind in regards to her. However, all the chicks I met are lesbians not full blown but have had encounters and still at some point would not mind it if the right situation came about..

your opinion..
 

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I don't understand that stuff to be truthful. Probably a good thing as it's none of my business anyway. To each his/her own.
its quite simple, if u want to know of course, the "receiver" is usually more feminine than the "giver" who can be extreme alpha (I said "can" be).

in the gay world the roles are devided like this, plus min ofc.

some gay guys are "always" the receivers, some are always the givers, and some guys are both, depending on the partner.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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davewe said:
You're saying this like it's a bad thing...
I also said, "Im just wondering if most women really are lesbian and I dont mean that in a bad way or mean way"

So far, all the women I dated are lesbies or super curious and I think they would do the deed if the stars alighned right. One in particular I was dating would tell me, she is lesbian, that girl is lesbian and I was thinking, it takes one to know one..LOL..
 

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rtrev64 said:
I also said, "Im just wondering if most women really are lesbian and I dont mean that in a bad way or mean way"

So far, all the women I dated are lesbies or super curious and I think they would do the deed if the stars alighned right. One in particular I was dating would tell me, she is lesbian, that girl is lesbian and I was thinking, it takes one to know one..LOL..
Johnny Soporno has a saying, "All women are bisexual from the waist up" which I think is mostly true. No, I don't think most women are lesbians, but bisexual or bisexually curious - sure.

I can't remember the last time I had a relationship (including my 2 marriages) with a woman who hadn't had at least 1 gf in her past. Personally, I think the sexual curiosity of such women is a good thing.
 

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Go on FB and you will see every girl has a picture of them squeezing a girls ass, boobs, or kisisng their cheek or even a close intimate moment with their heads together or even kissing on the lips.

It kind of turns me off tbh. I saw my GF has a few of those photo's and sort of makes me sick a little bit...
 

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Bible_Belt said:
There's a big difference between a bisexual party girl and a real lesbian. Typically, a lesbian couple, like any gay couple, will have a "man" and a "woman." The "male" half of the lesbian couple is usually a lumberjack-looking bull dyke who will only ever be with other women. The other half, who plays the female side, can probably go either way. Often they have had a traumatic experience with men in their past, like rape or abuse, making them uncomfortable about men in general. They also are often overweight, and dykes are a lot more forgiving about that than men.

Dykes are easy to spot, but the more feminine bisexual/lesbo girls are not. Fwiw, it seems like every secret lesbo I know played college sports. Going to an all-girl's college is another tipoff. And if there is a woman out there who played sports for an all-girls college and is not a lesbian, I have never met her.
This has got to be one of the funniest damn things I have ever read. I particularly like "lumberjack-looking bull dyke" - poetry.
 

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davewe said:
Johnny Soporno has a saying, "All women are bisexual from the waist up" which I think is mostly true. No, I don't think most women are lesbians, but bisexual or bisexually curious - sure.

I can't remember the last time I had a relationship (including my 2 marriages) with a woman who hadn't had at least 1 gf in her past. Personally, I think the sexual curiosity of such women is a good thing.
I agree, I used to be against it but all the girls I've dated have lipped locked, tongued and all but it does not bother me anymore. Like I told my girl, if she is interested in a girl and wants to do her thats ok, as long as Im in the picture or even watching will be cool..im not against it. I wont encourage it unless im drunk off my ass but it is what it is..:rockon:
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Boxer said:
Go on FB and you will see every girl has a picture of them squeezing a girls ass, boobs, or kisisng their cheek or even a close intimate moment with their heads together or even kissing on the lips.

It kind of turns me off tbh. I saw my GF has a few of those photo's and sort of makes me sick a little bit...

I think it's a huge turnoff. I don't want to see any of it and if my gf has any bisexual curiosity she should keep it to herself.
 

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Well, I´d just like to make a quick point, since this thread doesn´t help anyone attracting more women, (wich is the primary goal of this forum).

It´s totally irrelevant if women take slutty pictures, or tell guys that are bi, in most cases is just to turn men on and because they think it makes them cool. You know (or you should) that women constantly lie...
This doesn´t mean that most women would fall in love or would like to have sex with another women.

Actually if you do a quick research, with true professional researchers like Alfred Kinsey, you will find that there are more bisexual men than bisexual women. And that even straight men with their constant sexual urges are much more likely to haver
gay experiences than women who are far more in control of themselves...

This is just what you get, when you associate women constant hugging and kissing, with lesbian porn and mtv.... You conclude that most women are bi...
 
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