"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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All I would do is ***** and moan now all I am doing is talking successes. Made out randomly

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It was amazing last night I am glad I continued going out, met some people that are apart of a RSD group I joined and go out with them. We went to wheelhouse towards end of night. I saw this girl just standing there on her phone, I went up made a joke said you look like you are having a blast, she just came close to me grabbed me and started making out with me! I was like WTF this was so weird, so I just went along with it and grabbed her ass and bit her neck and was rubbing my finger around her body god damn it was so weird. I stopped told her at least take me out to dinner I was trying not to laugh and my friend in front of me was thumbs up I couldn't stop laughing. A FAT girl came by it was her friend he luckily has a good eye and stopped her and conversated with her and her friend stopped making out with me and walked next to her and was just ignoring me. So I gave her my phone told her add your number. Why do girls act weird when fat friend comes by and stuff? She also said you know melissa right? I said what she said just say you know her Im like ok sure. Whats up with that? You have to know people I dont get it?
Also danced with ok cute black girl got her number she saw I got girls number I said I like you more and she laughed and got her number so a WHOOOOOOOOOOOOO. Also before then went to place and was talking to girl and I was trying to get her number she said she had a boyfriend I FREAKING STUMBLED on that line where you say he can keep you busy when im not around she laughed though it was fun. ever since I lost weight and stupid ***** dumped me i feel freaking amazingly BOSS! When I see ***** next month I know she is gonna be wow wanting back Ill just sit back chill sure whatever. ONLY SEX PLAYMATES THIS POINT ON NEVER GIRLFRIENDS OR SERIOUS EVER TILL IM 60. THANKS BYE
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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ONLY SEX PLAYMATES THIS POINT ON NEVER GIRLFRIENDS OR SERIOUS EVER TILL IM 60. THANKS BYE
And this is how you know when a guy goes from AFC to starting to have minor success with women, lol...
They go from one end of the spectrum all the way to the polar opposite end of the spectrum.

OP, being too far on either side of the spectrum isn't good. You seem really young, you'll figure it out over the next few years.
 
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Explain why when women only care about what you are and dont care about you or your problems dont want to help. WHY WOULD U WANT RELATIONSHIP WITH BS? You can just have fun do whatever have 10 women ur happy dont have to get involved
When u get involved ur life goes ****.
 

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Explain why when women only care about what you are and dont care about you or your problems dont want to help. WHY WOULD U WANT RELATIONSHIP WITH BS? You can just have fun do whatever have 10 women ur happy dont have to get involved
When u get involved ur life goes ****.
Just not true. It might be for you because all you've able to attract are low quality women in the past due to your self limiting beliefs.

A woman's role in a relationship isn't to "help a man with his problems". You've got a lot to learn, and going in with a mindset that every woman you'll ever meet is low quality is not going to help.
 
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Ok point is if i think a girl is a above me she is NOT going to be attractedto me no matter what i have to be above women mentally physically and how i interact
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Ok point is if i think a girl is a above me
Stop right there.

That thought should NEVER again enter your mind. You are going nowhere until that changes.
 
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