"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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all i have is her number, in need for suggestions

DJ4Life

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hey guys

i got this girl's number who i used to go to the same school with

i was interested in her back then and i overheard that she was interested in me as well, so i asked around and got her name, but just when i was about to make a move i changed school and we never saw eachother again for almost half a year now

recently i got her number from a female friend of mine, and i want to get to know her again, the problem is, we have never met formally and talked in person, all i have is her number and her name and im not even sure if she remembers me anymore

any suggestions?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Call her up, when she answers, don't say who you are, just talk in a deep voice and breath heavily into the phone. Ask her what she's wearing, etc.. Then after you have built enough rapport, ask her out. :flowers:
 

Ace of Flames

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Just call her up. Tell her you're you from so-and-so school back about a half a year ago. If she doesn't remember you immediately, tell her you were friends with this guy that knew one of her friends, blah blah, and how you got her number from that girl. If she still doesn't remember, she'll at least keep talking to you, since you obviously know her friends.

Then you can do whatever you want. Really, what have you got to lose? Just call her.
 
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