"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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all i have is her number, in need for suggestions

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hey guys

i got this girl's number who i used to go to the same school with

i was interested in her back then and i overheard that she was interested in me as well, so i asked around and got her name, but just when i was about to make a move i changed school and we never saw eachother again for almost half a year now

recently i got her number from a female friend of mine, and i want to get to know her again, the problem is, we have never met formally and talked in person, all i have is her number and her name and im not even sure if she remembers me anymore

any suggestions?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Call her up, when she answers, don't say who you are, just talk in a deep voice and breath heavily into the phone. Ask her what she's wearing, etc.. Then after you have built enough rapport, ask her out. :flowers:
 
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Just call her up. Tell her you're you from so-and-so school back about a half a year ago. If she doesn't remember you immediately, tell her you were friends with this guy that knew one of her friends, blah blah, and how you got her number from that girl. If she still doesn't remember, she'll at least keep talking to you, since you obviously know her friends.

Then you can do whatever you want. Really, what have you got to lose? Just call her.
 
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