"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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All About Kissing

How much saliva do you want to leave on a girl after you kiss?

  • none

    Votes: 2 11.8%
  • moisture that dries up in 2 seconds

    Votes: 3 17.6%
  • moisture that dries up in 5 seconds

    Votes: 1 5.9%
  • just enough to feel a something "cold"

    Votes: 4 23.5%
  • drizzle

    Votes: 1 5.9%
  • a little wetness

    Votes: 5 29.4%
  • other[please explain in your post]

    Votes: 1 5.9%

  • Total voters
    17

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Ok i want this thread to be all about kissing... i AM aware of websites that are already all about kissing but i wanna discuss it here to you people who have experience.

Firstly when im with my girlfriend, is it wrong for ME to always initiate the kiss?
I kiss her on the lips like twice a week but im the one who always does it... and when i want her to kiss me i have to point to my cheek.

The following is a tip and a question:

TIP: When you want to see if your breath smells, lick your forehand and then smell it... the reason why your breathe smells is because of germs in your saliva, this is why licking your forehand is better than the old fashion breath test (breathe on your hand and then smell it).

QUESTION: This is mostly directed to people with experience, when you kiss a girl, how much saliva do you want to leave on her? I know she shouldn't be wiping her face after you kiss, but can u guys give me a percentage, or better yet, a description of how she should feel afterwards (according to the amount of saliva) thanks
[Even if you have voted in the poll, plz describe how much, ty]
 
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“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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it is up to u. u leave wut u feel confortable. n since she doesn't kiss u mayb don't kiss her anymore until kisses u wifout u asking

WUT A STUPID QUESTION U NOOB!!!
 

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woah woah woah no flaming here bro the kid has a serious question... i never thought about it that way i kiss the way i kiss... does moisture even matter?
 

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ok, first of all, gizmoz you are never allowed to call anyone a 'noob' again, because you have 6 posts.

Anyway, back to the question that is actually a pretty good question. I don't really think about it if i'm kissing a woman's body, but if my lips get really dry (which they do after awhile) i just lick them a little bit to keep the moisture on there. Basically, you just don't want them feeling the need to wipe themselves off afterwards cuz that'll get wierd really fast.
 

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Stop thinking so hard. Kissing isn't a matter of formulas and techniques. Kissing should be intuitive and instinctive, not a matter of techniques and thinking. Just enjoy the moment and do whatever you think would be appropriate.

-Damian
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Originally posted by Damian
Stop thinking so hard. Kissing isn't a matter of formulas and techniques. Kissing should be intuitive and instinctive, not a matter of techniques and thinking. Just enjoy the moment and do whatever you think would be appropriate.

-Damian
Ditto.

And dude, if you're thinking "I need to moisten my lips so that it'll last 2 seconds"...you're thinking too much.

****..Just lean in and kiss her. It's not hard.
 
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