"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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trd323

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We see a lot of posts about women liking and tolerating the skinny guy, but I for one have always been somewhat chubby, but I workout and it can definately be seen with definition around my body. I am not ripped with 6 pack abs. But I admit I do have a little spare tire. So, is this somewhat desireable by women?

I have been workingout for about 6months. Also do muay thai
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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it's average

workout harder and don't make excuses for staying average
 

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80% of the work to become lean happens in the kitchen, not the gym. Limit your caloric intake by separating your meals into 6 small meals eaten at 2 or 3 hour intervals. Be sure to cut all junk food, eat no excess sugars and fats, and eat fresh vegetables, lean meats, almonds, wholegrains, and dairy.
 
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