"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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alittle overweight

trd323

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We see a lot of posts about women liking and tolerating the skinny guy, but I for one have always been somewhat chubby, but I workout and it can definately be seen with definition around my body. I am not ripped with 6 pack abs. But I admit I do have a little spare tire. So, is this somewhat desireable by women?

I have been workingout for about 6months. Also do muay thai
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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gav

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it's average

workout harder and don't make excuses for staying average
 

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80% of the work to become lean happens in the kitchen, not the gym. Limit your caloric intake by separating your meals into 6 small meals eaten at 2 or 3 hour intervals. Be sure to cut all junk food, eat no excess sugars and fats, and eat fresh vegetables, lean meats, almonds, wholegrains, and dairy.
 
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