"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Alfee

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I'm all about action man...

I've been busy with stuff since the end of last summer. Time to get the summer rotation in order.


GOAL: Summer rotation of women
Every week: 4 days of new women - Tuesday, Thursday, Friday, and Saturday nights

From past experience this means I needa get 12 emails/numbers a week... 1 guaranteed date per 3 contacts.

This means ASK for 2 email addresses per day... meaning 14 per week.

By throwing myself out in the field and practising again I need to build up to 12 emails per 14 attempts.
No small feat.

I'll post my results here.


Alfee
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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why do u ask for email addys?
 

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Email addy's because

1. better rate of return (chicks can respond when they like and usually do)
2. it's a good to email back and forth a few times before u call... chick feels as if u know each other.

Anyways.... This all starts Today (Sunday, April 3rd) ... wish me luck...
 

too suave

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go for the nbr not email addresses. if they are willing to give a nbr they are probably more interested. email almost seems too safe
 

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Yeah...

I just follow the David D DYD routine:

1. Ask for email addy
2. While they're writing say "write down ur phone number too"

3. then while they're writing that...

"and write down ur name"

If you get resisitance to the phone number:

"Well do u have electricity?" answers yes
"Well OK I prefer email but I'll take ur phone number..."
(messes them up and it works!)
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

Read more...

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