"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Alfee

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I'm all about action man...

I've been busy with stuff since the end of last summer. Time to get the summer rotation in order.


GOAL: Summer rotation of women
Every week: 4 days of new women - Tuesday, Thursday, Friday, and Saturday nights

From past experience this means I needa get 12 emails/numbers a week... 1 guaranteed date per 3 contacts.

This means ASK for 2 email addresses per day... meaning 14 per week.

By throwing myself out in the field and practising again I need to build up to 12 emails per 14 attempts.
No small feat.

I'll post my results here.


Alfee
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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why do u ask for email addys?
 

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Email addy's because

1. better rate of return (chicks can respond when they like and usually do)
2. it's a good to email back and forth a few times before u call... chick feels as if u know each other.

Anyways.... This all starts Today (Sunday, April 3rd) ... wish me luck...
 

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go for the nbr not email addresses. if they are willing to give a nbr they are probably more interested. email almost seems too safe
 

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Yeah...

I just follow the David D DYD routine:

1. Ask for email addy
2. While they're writing say "write down ur phone number too"

3. then while they're writing that...

"and write down ur name"

If you get resisitance to the phone number:

"Well do u have electricity?" answers yes
"Well OK I prefer email but I'll take ur phone number..."
(messes them up and it works!)
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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