"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Alfee

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I'm all about action man...

I've been busy with stuff since the end of last summer. Time to get the summer rotation in order.


GOAL: Summer rotation of women
Every week: 4 days of new women - Tuesday, Thursday, Friday, and Saturday nights

From past experience this means I needa get 12 emails/numbers a week... 1 guaranteed date per 3 contacts.

This means ASK for 2 email addresses per day... meaning 14 per week.

By throwing myself out in the field and practising again I need to build up to 12 emails per 14 attempts.
No small feat.

I'll post my results here.


Alfee
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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why do u ask for email addys?
 

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Email addy's because

1. better rate of return (chicks can respond when they like and usually do)
2. it's a good to email back and forth a few times before u call... chick feels as if u know each other.

Anyways.... This all starts Today (Sunday, April 3rd) ... wish me luck...
 

too suave

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go for the nbr not email addresses. if they are willing to give a nbr they are probably more interested. email almost seems too safe
 

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Yeah...

I just follow the David D DYD routine:

1. Ask for email addy
2. While they're writing say "write down ur phone number too"

3. then while they're writing that...

"and write down ur name"

If you get resisitance to the phone number:

"Well do u have electricity?" answers yes
"Well OK I prefer email but I'll take ur phone number..."
(messes them up and it works!)
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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