"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Alex's Journal: Sort it out son
- Thread starter Cloud-uk
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Cloud-uk
Master Don Juan
I hope it goes well. Tell me what it's like- I still can't think what's going to be going on when you're not being interviewed...My A levels are Psychology, Philosophy, Biology and Art. Carried on all 4. I don't reccommend it, unless you're doing a subject that unis don't like for the course you want to do, but don't want to give up. Like art.
Still, feeling pretty optimistic about unis at the mo- the offer of AAB at york includes art, so it's effectively an AB in the other three subjects and I'm into a great uni. Result
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