Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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ALERT - Woman over 35 wants Friends first now

Rollo Tomassi

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After sleeping on this for a night I find the whole premise absurd.

Online "Dating"

Dating by definition presumes you will, at some point, be 'ƒucking'. If a woman is looking for 'friends' or expanding her social circle, she can always start a FaceBook profile and indicate that there.

Women know damn well that a dating site's ultimate purpose is to facilitate meeting a guy they will eventually ƒuck. Her "friends first" disclaimer is simply a Buffer for her, and all you do by playing along with it is reinforce her controlling the frame.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Rollo Tomassi said:
After sleeping on this for a night I find the whole premise absurd.

Online "Dating"

Dating by definition presumes you will, at some point, be 'ƒucking'. If a woman is looking for 'friends' or expanding her social circle, she can always start a FaceBook profile and indicate that there.

Women know damn well that a dating site's ultimate purpose is to facilitate meeting a guy they will eventually ƒuck. Her "friends first" disclaimer is simply a Buffer for her, and all you do by playing along with it is reinforce her controlling the frame.
Thank you! Well frakking said!
 
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