"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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ALERT - Woman over 35 wants Friends first now

Rollo Tomassi

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After sleeping on this for a night I find the whole premise absurd.

Online "Dating"

Dating by definition presumes you will, at some point, be 'ƒucking'. If a woman is looking for 'friends' or expanding her social circle, she can always start a FaceBook profile and indicate that there.

Women know damn well that a dating site's ultimate purpose is to facilitate meeting a guy they will eventually ƒuck. Her "friends first" disclaimer is simply a Buffer for her, and all you do by playing along with it is reinforce her controlling the frame.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Rollo Tomassi said:
After sleeping on this for a night I find the whole premise absurd.

Online "Dating"

Dating by definition presumes you will, at some point, be 'ƒucking'. If a woman is looking for 'friends' or expanding her social circle, she can always start a FaceBook profile and indicate that there.

Women know damn well that a dating site's ultimate purpose is to facilitate meeting a guy they will eventually ƒuck. Her "friends first" disclaimer is simply a Buffer for her, and all you do by playing along with it is reinforce her controlling the frame.
Thank you! Well frakking said!
 
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