"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Alcohol

drellum

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Is the general consensus that alcohol helps one's game or hinders it?

I find that i am a bit more confident with a couple of drinks but anymore and I seem to lose the plot.

Any thoughts?

D
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Young Stallion

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drellum said:
Is the general consensus that alcohol helps one's game or hinders it?

I find that i am a bit more confident with a couple of drinks but anymore and I seem to lose the plot.

Any thoughts?

D
Dude, this post points toward a slippery slope. Dont be drinking to improve game.
 

ladyzman

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Nah. Seems like it helps at first but doesn't help in the long run. Lost the opp to sleep with a few beautiful women cause my penis on alcohol was doing the talking.
 

In2theGame

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drellum said:
Is the general consensus that alcohol helps one's game or hinders it?

I find that i am a bit more confident with a couple of drinks but anymore and I seem to lose the plot.

Any thoughts?

D
I find that when my friends and i go out or im at a party and i start drinkin a bit my game gets alot better lol
 

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If I drink too much I can't perform, and even girls reach a point where it's harder for them to orgasm. That said, her having a few drinks usually helps.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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sinful

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Alcohol lowers people's inhibitions and boosts their confidence. If you need a drink to relax and get your head straight (in a social setting), go for it. However, do not become dependent on liquid courage to approach/talk to women.
 

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That depends on the person's health condition. Altough I suggest for u to not drink alcohol, because it makes the liver turn testosterone into estrogen...
 
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