"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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drellum

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Is the general consensus that alcohol helps one's game or hinders it?

I find that i am a bit more confident with a couple of drinks but anymore and I seem to lose the plot.

Any thoughts?

D
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Young Stallion

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drellum said:
Is the general consensus that alcohol helps one's game or hinders it?

I find that i am a bit more confident with a couple of drinks but anymore and I seem to lose the plot.

Any thoughts?

D
Dude, this post points toward a slippery slope. Dont be drinking to improve game.
 

ladyzman

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Nah. Seems like it helps at first but doesn't help in the long run. Lost the opp to sleep with a few beautiful women cause my penis on alcohol was doing the talking.
 

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drellum said:
Is the general consensus that alcohol helps one's game or hinders it?

I find that i am a bit more confident with a couple of drinks but anymore and I seem to lose the plot.

Any thoughts?

D
I find that when my friends and i go out or im at a party and i start drinkin a bit my game gets alot better lol
 

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If I drink too much I can't perform, and even girls reach a point where it's harder for them to orgasm. That said, her having a few drinks usually helps.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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sinful

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Alcohol lowers people's inhibitions and boosts their confidence. If you need a drink to relax and get your head straight (in a social setting), go for it. However, do not become dependent on liquid courage to approach/talk to women.
 

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That depends on the person's health condition. Altough I suggest for u to not drink alcohol, because it makes the liver turn testosterone into estrogen...
 
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