“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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wjh

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Anyone else think more than a couple drinks significantly hampers their game?

I've been noticing that if I'm out with my boys and we start to drink and then chat girls up I have a harder time... I think 3 strong drinks is my cap before I start getting stupid.

I'm going to try going out soon sometime and not have more than 3 drinks and see what happens. Now that I think about it, whenever I go out (with friends at least), I drink pretty heavily. It's social, but still.

I'll have to give it a shot.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Lord Shinra

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For me its dogsh!t. I do just the same whether I'm drunk or sober.
 

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if you're really trying to pick up chicks then it's good not to get real drunk. But when I'm going out to bars, picking up chicks usually isn't my main goal so I just drink however much I want.
 

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Obsidian said:
But when I'm going out to bars, picking up chicks usually isn't my main goal so I just drink however much I want.
That's true with me too. I don't usually go out to pick girls up. It's just natural that if I see a girl I'm interested in I make my way... Usually, there's at least one girl I'm interested in wherever bar I'm at.
 

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It's different for everyone. Alcohol actually improves my game since there isn't much difference between 6 beers and 15 beers for me. All that changes is that I'm more prone to do more ridiculous stuff like challenge girls to dance offs. In combination with cocaine I find my game is practically flawless because I read and react to girls nearly perfectly, but I try not to do that as often because not everyone is cool with it.

Oh, and like the above posters... when I go out my main objective is to have fun. Not to pick girls up. Picking girls up just sort of happens and is part of the fun.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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:( lol I dont drink 1 because I am underage and 2 it seems like a boring thing to do....yes you have fun doing it but I dont need something that impairs everything I do to have fun but that's just me.
 

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Of course alcohol is going to hamper your game at some point. The one thing alcohol does for me is it literally deletes any form of approach anxiety. This is great but who gives a flying poop when you can't close. Its just liquid courage. Wish I could harness the positive without the negative haha.. i would be golden.

Till than just gotta work on it in other ways.
 

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As of lately i have noticed that to much alcohol hinders my game. Needless to say that thier have been to many instances that if i were sober( or at least less drunk) that i could have K or F closed a girl as opposed to getting a # close or leaving them hanging and not escalating when i should.

Fortuanlty i have decided to stop drinking for now and i have become more active in sports and working out, so right now i could care less to get drunk. Not to mention that when drunk girls are even easier to lay. So with them being drunk and me being sober it's A+ game for me.
 

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Quit drinking when I went to a party to talk to women, but got faced, and ended up sitting on a tractor to avoid making an ass out of myself (the party was in a barn).
 

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Is it just me, or are people who go to parties and don't drink weird? I'm pretty sure the whole point of partying is to

A. Get Drunk/Stoned
B. BS with your friends
C. Hit on chicks

Now if you take alcohol out of the equation, it's not going to be as much fun doing B or C. I can understand not getting drunk, as I'm usually the guy drinking beer after beer and still not showing it. Not a brag, the beer here sucks unless you go to the liquor store...and then it's warm.
 
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Martinis are like t!tties. One's not enough, but three is too many.
 
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