“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Alcohol! [What kind and how much]

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do you think absinthe would get her too screwed up? i hear that stuff is crazy. lol

Wine is definately a good choice. Lots of flavors to choose from with that. The whiter her skin the whiter her wine.

Cognac? Hell no!

Have you had drinks with her before? If you can remember, you might tell what she likes.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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For champagne, try Martinelli. Cheap, and reasonably good.

EDIT nevermind that it's cider.
 

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Good cheap sparkling wine eh?

Go With G.H. Mumm It's a straw color brut with more bubbles that are smaller then regular Mumms so you won't give her the hang over of a lifetime. It'll Run you $24 bucks, but it's good for the price.

Or you could just go with Domaine St. Michelle it's only $8 bucks it's also a straw brut but it doesn't have an aroma. It does however finish clean so you don't necessarily have to have a bowl of strawberries on hand.
 

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Originally posted by MetalFortress
Champagne and Kahlua with milk are my personal choices for when she comes over. Vanilla vodka is a good one too.
That's absolutely disgusting.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Absinthe is okay as long as you don't drink more than a few glasses.
 

ASD :)

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Well, I, for some reason think that neither cognac, vodka nor absinthe would be a good idea.
Ah, I am pretty sure now that tequila would be just good. I will also buy some good champagne just in case.
What tequila do you guys prefer btw?
 

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You people are more sophisticated than I.

I just have a large bottle of vodka in the freezer at all times and various juices and sodas in the fridge.

Vodka mixes with everything.

No need to get fancy.

Sunny D and vodka.
Cranberry juice and vodka.
Milk and vodka.. err... no... but pretty much any juice.

The best stuff i had if you like sweet things is... you know that little hug mix? Little hugs are those little barrel drinks.. i remember them more as a kid... but they're sweeter than koolaid.. well i found the pure syrup for the stuff... man you mix 80% vodka and 20% that mix and some water and you can't even taste the vodka.. sweet as hell though but i love sugar. One drink and you're done heh.
 

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Originally posted by Create Reality
That's absolutely disgusting.
I'm guessing that he meant champagne, OR Kahlua and milk. Not champagne, kahlua, and milk all together in one bizarre mixture, which is what I have a feeling you interpreted it as.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Crown is good but I prefer Johnny Walker Blue label if I'm gonna go whiskey.

Good ole Jack Daniels is still my go to man when i go out however.
 

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Originally posted by agrisafi1

PRMoon - I havent had Blue Label. Black is ok... but you find blue better than jack?
A fifth of Blue Label will set you back about $275, compared to $25 for Jack.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Taquilla or malibu is alway good with the girls in my opninon. I have pretty much everything in thow. Just in case ;)
 

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Originally posted by American_Psycho
A fifth of Blue Label will set you back about $275, compared to $25 for Jack.
Dead right about that. Blue Label is top Shelf, but it's DAMNED good. I've had it sevaral times since my exodus to vegas (ritzy people give it away as gifts from time to time) it's really smooth and crisp.

Still when I go to the store I go right for Jack Daniels, sometimes Jim Beame Black label when it's on sale. I also Like Gentleman jack because it's a little more harsh but when it comes to JD the harshness lets you know you're alive.
 

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depends on age

you want to go a little ahead of where she's at since it suggests a bit of sophistication and is a turn on.

BOYS, (that includes college dudes) drink beer and your common cheap hard liquor, like JD, tequila etc (disclosure: I love expensive tequilas, cognacs and canadian and irish whiskeys -- for some reason I can't take rye).

If you're at a nice ****tail lounge in a good sports jacket, no beer! -- she wants to see you with a man's drink, something in a rocks glass, nothing collegy and gimmicky like <insert silly name of latest fad drink here>, and definitely nothing with umbrellas or blended (those are chick drinks, if you have to ask...) She wants to see sophistication and class, like you've stepped beyond the frat kegger slug-fest.

She'll accept you drinking beer in the right situations - don't worry, ok?, but wants to see you acting like a man and drinking basic, uncomplicated hard liquor in other situations.

As for her -- they're not so big on beer, especially the older they get. Red wine is to women what beer is to guys. Anything will do - spend $10+ for your basic table wine, more if you can afford it or she's developed a palate. Shiraz is getting popular because women tend to like the round fruity flavor. Cabs and merlots will never lose you points.

You really want to get her giddy and make it special: champagne. She'll go for it over wine or beer the way she'll go for a guy in a sports jacket over some hip-hop wannabe getup. Problem is - you probably have to have some too (I have to slam the first glass like a shot and then I'm good with champagne for the rest of the evening, otherwise I gag on it)

Avoid beer unless she's very young and hasn't formed any opinions (that is - she's still somewhere in highschool developmentally). She'll like red wine. She'll love champagne but you need to make the event a bit more special (pizza and a movie isn't a champagne venue, right? - or maybe that's a killer combo if you have the right attitude and a playful sense of humor) Tequila etc. are college stuff - if you're there, fine. If you're older, it's only fine if you're blue-collar and tequila is your idea of fancy.

Mid and high end vodkas are good. Same with gins and scotch if she's a drinker and appreciates those.
 

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Oh, thank you. Very many nice details. Tequila seems to be THE ONE, still - yes, I am in college. Of course I would not drink beer with her, but I probably need to buy some red wine too, indeed.

Champagne would be way to formal or romantic.
 

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Originally posted by TesuqueRed
depends on age

you want to go a little ahead of where she's at since it suggests a bit of sophistication and is a turn on.

BOYS, (that includes college dudes) drink beer and your common cheap hard liquor, like JD, tequila etc (disclosure: I love expensive tequilas, cognacs and canadian and irish whiskeys -- for some reason I can't take rye).

If you're at a nice ****tail lounge in a good sports jacket, no beer! -- she wants to see you with a man's drink, something in a rocks glass, nothing collegy and gimmicky like <insert silly name of latest fad drink here>, and definitely nothing with umbrellas or blended (those are chick drinks, if you have to ask...) She wants to see sophistication and class, like you've stepped beyond the frat kegger slug-fest.

She'll accept you drinking beer in the right situations - don't worry, ok?, but wants to see you acting like a man and drinking basic, uncomplicated hard liquor in other situations.

As for her -- they're not so big on beer, especially the older they get. Red wine is to women what beer is to guys. Anything will do - spend $10+ for your basic table wine, more if you can afford it or she's developed a palate. Shiraz is getting popular because women tend to like the round fruity flavor. Cabs and merlots will never lose you points.

You really want to get her giddy and make it special: champagne. She'll go for it over wine or beer the way she'll go for a guy in a sports jacket over some hip-hop wannabe getup. Problem is - you probably have to have some too (I have to slam the first glass like a shot and then I'm good with champagne for the rest of the evening, otherwise I gag on it)

Avoid beer unless she's very young and hasn't formed any opinions (that is - she's still somewhere in highschool developmentally). She'll like red wine. She'll love champagne but you need to make the event a bit more special (pizza and a movie isn't a champagne venue, right? - or maybe that's a killer combo if you have the right attitude and a playful sense of humor) Tequila etc. are college stuff - if you're there, fine. If you're older, it's only fine if you're blue-collar and tequila is your idea of fancy.

Mid and high end vodkas are good. Same with gins and scotch if she's a drinker and appreciates those.

Geez oh man.

She wants me to not to drink beer? Who the hell cares what she thinks of what i'm drinking?

This is like someone giving a damn i used my forks in the wrong order.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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