"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Alcohol! [What kind and how much]

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do you think absinthe would get her too screwed up? i hear that stuff is crazy. lol

Wine is definately a good choice. Lots of flavors to choose from with that. The whiter her skin the whiter her wine.

Cognac? Hell no!

Have you had drinks with her before? If you can remember, you might tell what she likes.
 

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Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

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For champagne, try Martinelli. Cheap, and reasonably good.

EDIT nevermind that it's cider.
 

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Good cheap sparkling wine eh?

Go With G.H. Mumm It's a straw color brut with more bubbles that are smaller then regular Mumms so you won't give her the hang over of a lifetime. It'll Run you $24 bucks, but it's good for the price.

Or you could just go with Domaine St. Michelle it's only $8 bucks it's also a straw brut but it doesn't have an aroma. It does however finish clean so you don't necessarily have to have a bowl of strawberries on hand.
 

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Originally posted by MetalFortress
Champagne and Kahlua with milk are my personal choices for when she comes over. Vanilla vodka is a good one too.
That's absolutely disgusting.
 

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Absinthe is okay as long as you don't drink more than a few glasses.
 

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Well, I, for some reason think that neither cognac, vodka nor absinthe would be a good idea.
Ah, I am pretty sure now that tequila would be just good. I will also buy some good champagne just in case.
What tequila do you guys prefer btw?
 

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You people are more sophisticated than I.

I just have a large bottle of vodka in the freezer at all times and various juices and sodas in the fridge.

Vodka mixes with everything.

No need to get fancy.

Sunny D and vodka.
Cranberry juice and vodka.
Milk and vodka.. err... no... but pretty much any juice.

The best stuff i had if you like sweet things is... you know that little hug mix? Little hugs are those little barrel drinks.. i remember them more as a kid... but they're sweeter than koolaid.. well i found the pure syrup for the stuff... man you mix 80% vodka and 20% that mix and some water and you can't even taste the vodka.. sweet as hell though but i love sugar. One drink and you're done heh.
 

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Originally posted by Create Reality
That's absolutely disgusting.
I'm guessing that he meant champagne, OR Kahlua and milk. Not champagne, kahlua, and milk all together in one bizarre mixture, which is what I have a feeling you interpreted it as.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

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Crown is good but I prefer Johnny Walker Blue label if I'm gonna go whiskey.

Good ole Jack Daniels is still my go to man when i go out however.
 

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Originally posted by agrisafi1

PRMoon - I havent had Blue Label. Black is ok... but you find blue better than jack?
A fifth of Blue Label will set you back about $275, compared to $25 for Jack.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Taquilla or malibu is alway good with the girls in my opninon. I have pretty much everything in thow. Just in case ;)
 

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Originally posted by American_Psycho
A fifth of Blue Label will set you back about $275, compared to $25 for Jack.
Dead right about that. Blue Label is top Shelf, but it's DAMNED good. I've had it sevaral times since my exodus to vegas (ritzy people give it away as gifts from time to time) it's really smooth and crisp.

Still when I go to the store I go right for Jack Daniels, sometimes Jim Beame Black label when it's on sale. I also Like Gentleman jack because it's a little more harsh but when it comes to JD the harshness lets you know you're alive.
 

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depends on age

you want to go a little ahead of where she's at since it suggests a bit of sophistication and is a turn on.

BOYS, (that includes college dudes) drink beer and your common cheap hard liquor, like JD, tequila etc (disclosure: I love expensive tequilas, cognacs and canadian and irish whiskeys -- for some reason I can't take rye).

If you're at a nice ****tail lounge in a good sports jacket, no beer! -- she wants to see you with a man's drink, something in a rocks glass, nothing collegy and gimmicky like <insert silly name of latest fad drink here>, and definitely nothing with umbrellas or blended (those are chick drinks, if you have to ask...) She wants to see sophistication and class, like you've stepped beyond the frat kegger slug-fest.

She'll accept you drinking beer in the right situations - don't worry, ok?, but wants to see you acting like a man and drinking basic, uncomplicated hard liquor in other situations.

As for her -- they're not so big on beer, especially the older they get. Red wine is to women what beer is to guys. Anything will do - spend $10+ for your basic table wine, more if you can afford it or she's developed a palate. Shiraz is getting popular because women tend to like the round fruity flavor. Cabs and merlots will never lose you points.

You really want to get her giddy and make it special: champagne. She'll go for it over wine or beer the way she'll go for a guy in a sports jacket over some hip-hop wannabe getup. Problem is - you probably have to have some too (I have to slam the first glass like a shot and then I'm good with champagne for the rest of the evening, otherwise I gag on it)

Avoid beer unless she's very young and hasn't formed any opinions (that is - she's still somewhere in highschool developmentally). She'll like red wine. She'll love champagne but you need to make the event a bit more special (pizza and a movie isn't a champagne venue, right? - or maybe that's a killer combo if you have the right attitude and a playful sense of humor) Tequila etc. are college stuff - if you're there, fine. If you're older, it's only fine if you're blue-collar and tequila is your idea of fancy.

Mid and high end vodkas are good. Same with gins and scotch if she's a drinker and appreciates those.
 

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Oh, thank you. Very many nice details. Tequila seems to be THE ONE, still - yes, I am in college. Of course I would not drink beer with her, but I probably need to buy some red wine too, indeed.

Champagne would be way to formal or romantic.
 

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Originally posted by TesuqueRed
depends on age

you want to go a little ahead of where she's at since it suggests a bit of sophistication and is a turn on.

BOYS, (that includes college dudes) drink beer and your common cheap hard liquor, like JD, tequila etc (disclosure: I love expensive tequilas, cognacs and canadian and irish whiskeys -- for some reason I can't take rye).

If you're at a nice ****tail lounge in a good sports jacket, no beer! -- she wants to see you with a man's drink, something in a rocks glass, nothing collegy and gimmicky like <insert silly name of latest fad drink here>, and definitely nothing with umbrellas or blended (those are chick drinks, if you have to ask...) She wants to see sophistication and class, like you've stepped beyond the frat kegger slug-fest.

She'll accept you drinking beer in the right situations - don't worry, ok?, but wants to see you acting like a man and drinking basic, uncomplicated hard liquor in other situations.

As for her -- they're not so big on beer, especially the older they get. Red wine is to women what beer is to guys. Anything will do - spend $10+ for your basic table wine, more if you can afford it or she's developed a palate. Shiraz is getting popular because women tend to like the round fruity flavor. Cabs and merlots will never lose you points.

You really want to get her giddy and make it special: champagne. She'll go for it over wine or beer the way she'll go for a guy in a sports jacket over some hip-hop wannabe getup. Problem is - you probably have to have some too (I have to slam the first glass like a shot and then I'm good with champagne for the rest of the evening, otherwise I gag on it)

Avoid beer unless she's very young and hasn't formed any opinions (that is - she's still somewhere in highschool developmentally). She'll like red wine. She'll love champagne but you need to make the event a bit more special (pizza and a movie isn't a champagne venue, right? - or maybe that's a killer combo if you have the right attitude and a playful sense of humor) Tequila etc. are college stuff - if you're there, fine. If you're older, it's only fine if you're blue-collar and tequila is your idea of fancy.

Mid and high end vodkas are good. Same with gins and scotch if she's a drinker and appreciates those.

Geez oh man.

She wants me to not to drink beer? Who the hell cares what she thinks of what i'm drinking?

This is like someone giving a damn i used my forks in the wrong order.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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