I got drunk at a party last night and drunk called a girl I have a crush on at school. 3 times, at 2am. I have almost every class with this girl. And the first one is tomorrow. Did this happen to anyone else? How awkward was it for you? I texted her today and said my bad for the crank calls.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
alcohol is bad.
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
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whenever i get drunk, i lose something... i also see about 30 outgoing texts the next day on my phone.
thecurtainfalls
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Exactly.Lexington said:
amoka
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Few weeks ago, I took a girl out and she kept on buying drinks after drinks, then after some more, I was completely GONE. My initial plan was to nail this girl that day but because of the sh!t, I could not even do anything. She had to drive my car back home, that was how bad things were. The following morning, she called to see if I as alright then she started saying she did not know how flirtatious I was. She said I flirted with every woman at the place. Alcohol can enhance your game and can mess it up also. Drink in moderation.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Scar Tissue
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I remember my first beer...
But in all seriousness you need to just apologize to her and then leave it be.
"Hey sorry Jessica, I was really drunk the other night (laugh), you know how it is"
Its not a big deal.
Next you need to learn how to drink within reason. Your not 25 years old.
But in all seriousness you need to just apologize to her and then leave it be.
"Hey sorry Jessica, I was really drunk the other night (laugh), you know how it is"
Its not a big deal.
Next you need to learn how to drink within reason. Your not 25 years old.