"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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akward: shyness came back!

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Shapoopie

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This is the weirdest thing that's ever happened to me since I opened up:

Before, I couldn't talk with a hottie even if I hated her. Now, I can talk to anyone relatively easily. But, today, I went back to youth group after missing like 5 weeks and couldn't say anything unless spoken to.

There was this one chick that basically told me she wanted to get to know me cuz we go to different schools, but I could think of a million and a half things to say and no balls to say anything. I'll have week after week to be C+F but I wanna know:
1) where'd this sudden shyness come from?
2) WTF went wrong that made me become introverted outa nowhere?
3) Every question is asking the same thing XD
 

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You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

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Maybe u just had an off day.

I've had that happen to me before and its important not to dwell on it or it could keep coming back. Just try not to think about it and be yourself when u go back there.

Also, when u go back, try getting comfortable first with the other guys there and girls u dont care about. Then that way it will be easier to talk to the hot girl later. If she sees u having a good time, she'll be more attracted to you.
 
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I become "shy" when I start to worry about what others will think of what I say. Or when I'm out of energy.
 
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like, i had something good to say, but, it's like my vocal cords broke. just let today go?
 
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