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akward: shyness came back!

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This is the weirdest thing that's ever happened to me since I opened up:

Before, I couldn't talk with a hottie even if I hated her. Now, I can talk to anyone relatively easily. But, today, I went back to youth group after missing like 5 weeks and couldn't say anything unless spoken to.

There was this one chick that basically told me she wanted to get to know me cuz we go to different schools, but I could think of a million and a half things to say and no balls to say anything. I'll have week after week to be C+F but I wanna know:
1) where'd this sudden shyness come from?
2) WTF went wrong that made me become introverted outa nowhere?
3) Every question is asking the same thing XD
 

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Maybe u just had an off day.

I've had that happen to me before and its important not to dwell on it or it could keep coming back. Just try not to think about it and be yourself when u go back there.

Also, when u go back, try getting comfortable first with the other guys there and girls u dont care about. Then that way it will be easier to talk to the hot girl later. If she sees u having a good time, she'll be more attracted to you.
 
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I become "shy" when I start to worry about what others will think of what I say. Or when I'm out of energy.
 
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like, i had something good to say, but, it's like my vocal cords broke. just let today go?
 
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