"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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akward kino moment?

BongDuy

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Has anyone ever experienced this? like i was thinking, when its just you and a girl, sitting across from each other, when the convo starts to slowly fade away, you hold her hand.

What if she has a negative reaction, like saying " What are you doing?"

I was thinking a backup plan would be to say " Oh i was just feeling your ring" or something.


Has anyone ever experienced this or gone through it?



also, what about when you two are making out, you hold her hand and slowly lead it to your penis. is that a good move as well?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Jblitz59

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also, what about when you two are making out, you hold her hand and slowly lead it to your penis. is that a good move as well?
A good move if you want her to scream," RAPE"
 

kraytkiller

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Jblitz59 said:
A good move if you want her to scream," RAPE"
Not quite. It all depends on the girl. Some will be... scared by it.. I guess. But most won't have such an extreme reaction as above. If they do, they have some issues...

It all depends on the woman. You should be able to instinctively 'sense' how well it would go down.

It all has to do with Rapport, I think...

On a semi-related note, I once heard a group of girls discussing that exact move. One of them said that that was one of their... ****-test like tests to see if the man had a big **** or not. Her words were 'You know if hes working with something small down there hes not going to want to put your hand on it'.
 

Daddy The Pimp

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Guys like you don't deserve to hold girls hand.

Why ?

Because you are pvssy enough that you need an excuse to hold her hand.
If she acts weird and gives negative reaction ill throw some disinterest stuff on her to tell her that i don't appreciate this kind of behavior.

Also , you're trying to play safe. The game is not safe. You have to burn 1000 times if you want to become good.

Also , if she's freaking out because you grabbed her hand , that set is already not working. Its probably because you didn't escalate right in the begining and now all the sudden you grab her hand like a fvcking weirdo.

Grow some balls man. The game its not about tactics and good comebacks. Its about how hard you push and how much you deserve it.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Joe Stud

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Just say you were "getting caught up in the moment". It's no big deal, don't be too shocked. Just step back, and rewind a bit.
As far as moving her hand on your johnson... I have used it and gotten good results, and bad. Good that they play with it and instantly their breathing becomes more labored (excited). One chick though (an LJBF) said "grab your own joint". LOL. I just laughed. I am not embarrassed nor apologetic for being a red blooded american man!
 

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If she rejects it, ignore it and keep talking about whatever you were talking about.

Be unphased.
 
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