"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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akward kino moment?

BongDuy

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Has anyone ever experienced this? like i was thinking, when its just you and a girl, sitting across from each other, when the convo starts to slowly fade away, you hold her hand.

What if she has a negative reaction, like saying " What are you doing?"

I was thinking a backup plan would be to say " Oh i was just feeling your ring" or something.


Has anyone ever experienced this or gone through it?



also, what about when you two are making out, you hold her hand and slowly lead it to your penis. is that a good move as well?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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also, what about when you two are making out, you hold her hand and slowly lead it to your penis. is that a good move as well?
A good move if you want her to scream," RAPE"
 

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Jblitz59 said:
A good move if you want her to scream," RAPE"
Not quite. It all depends on the girl. Some will be... scared by it.. I guess. But most won't have such an extreme reaction as above. If they do, they have some issues...

It all depends on the woman. You should be able to instinctively 'sense' how well it would go down.

It all has to do with Rapport, I think...

On a semi-related note, I once heard a group of girls discussing that exact move. One of them said that that was one of their... ****-test like tests to see if the man had a big **** or not. Her words were 'You know if hes working with something small down there hes not going to want to put your hand on it'.
 

Daddy The Pimp

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Guys like you don't deserve to hold girls hand.

Why ?

Because you are pvssy enough that you need an excuse to hold her hand.
If she acts weird and gives negative reaction ill throw some disinterest stuff on her to tell her that i don't appreciate this kind of behavior.

Also , you're trying to play safe. The game is not safe. You have to burn 1000 times if you want to become good.

Also , if she's freaking out because you grabbed her hand , that set is already not working. Its probably because you didn't escalate right in the begining and now all the sudden you grab her hand like a fvcking weirdo.

Grow some balls man. The game its not about tactics and good comebacks. Its about how hard you push and how much you deserve it.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Joe Stud

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Just say you were "getting caught up in the moment". It's no big deal, don't be too shocked. Just step back, and rewind a bit.
As far as moving her hand on your johnson... I have used it and gotten good results, and bad. Good that they play with it and instantly their breathing becomes more labored (excited). One chick though (an LJBF) said "grab your own joint". LOL. I just laughed. I am not embarrassed nor apologetic for being a red blooded american man!
 

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If she rejects it, ignore it and keep talking about whatever you were talking about.

Be unphased.
 
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