AIM Convos

[Chicks Just Dig Me]

I tend to have more trouble with AIM convos than talking with girls regular. I think I seem to bore the girl I like because it is tough to flirt with typing and stuff like that. How do ppl manage to entertain and keep the AIM convos interesting?? Any ideas?

 

[Chase Dat Skuht]

I'd say avoid texting, IMing, and all that. It is easy for the person to misinterpret what youre saying.

 

[WC2]

It's difficult to avoid AIM and texting in high school. Everyone does it.

If you do though, keep it short and always funny/positive. Girls love funny and uplifting stuff. It's a natural aphrodisiac (sp?).

Don't spend hours on end talking to girls online.. you're now becoming her friend.

 

[Chicks Just Dig Me]

Any way to be C + F on AIM. I try to be, but she repeats I am mean and stuff. I know she is kidding because she says that playfully to me when we hang out. I've talked to her the last 2 days, so I should probably keep it casual the next few days..How can you be funny when you are typing things instead of saying them?

 

[guayaballer]

make fun of whatever she says or tell her a funny story. what i like to do is randomly im her and say something random.


me:i just got beat up
her: omg by who?
me: the midget mafia
her: wtf lmao

never fails

 

[Chase Dat Skuht]

It's difficult to avoid AIM and texting in high school. Everyone does it.

If you do though, keep it short and always funny/positive. Girls love funny and uplifting stuff. It's a natural aphrodisiac (sp?).

Don't spend hours on end talking to girls online.. you're now becoming her friend.

Agreed.

 

[girl_in_a_boy_forum]

I'd say avoid texting, IMing, and all that. It is easy for the person to misinterpret what youre saying.

Agreed 100%. Talk in person; it's wayyy more effective at building sexual tension. If a girl gets used to talking to you online, you become her "diary" to ramble about her boy problems, and I'm sure you don't want that.

All this electronic crap makes real life awkward. It deceives you into thinking you have a close friendship with somebody, when in real life you have no idea what to say and are completely awkward face to face. And no, it's not that hard to avoid in high school...ever hear of something called "hanging out"? Or the "telephone"?

 

[Chicks Just Dig Me]

Yah, the thing is, I am always asking her to hangout, she has not once asked me to hangout, altohugh shes brought things up without asking me initially. When we hung out for the first time, a couple weeks ago she was talkin with her friend about me and I heard "Yah but I don't think so..."probably if I would be dating her, with doesn't look too promising--life is not fair, lol. I think she is kinda getting annoyed a little bit because I used to be pretty nice to her, now I am busting on her a lot and making her laugh. She is just going to have to get used to it...