"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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judoalex

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i might have had unprotected sex with a girl with aids, what are the chances of me getting hiv positive if she was hiv positive
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Yikes! What makes you think she has Aids?

If it's any consultation, I did read one time that men are less likely to contract the disease through intercourse than women. Mainly becuase the male organ doesn't easily take in fluids. However, the spread of the disease is rampant in homosexual males and needle additcs because they are "taking in" the disease.
 

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she was an asian massage girl, and i dont know why but after i ejaculated i kept on humping, an when i decided to stop, the condom was off
 

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So Asian message girls have a rep for having Aids? Do you have any valid reason for thinking this chick has Aids or are you just being paranoid?
 

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just being really paranoid

and the ad part is i might stay like this for another 3 months cuz aids doesnt show up on tests for that long
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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judoalex

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just being really paranoid

and the ad part is i might stay like this for another 3 months cuz aids doesnt show up on tests for that long
so i want to know a percentage
 

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Dude, I wouldn't worry about it so much. Aids is not really as big of an epidemic as the media would have you think. Not among heroin-free heterosexuals at least. You should be more concerned with contracting Herpes, warts, or other stds. Not really Aids. A friend of mine contracted genital warts. And from the stories I hear about that, I'd rather have Aids and die then live with a disease that makes your dyck look like the elephant man, and not to mention can cause cervical cancer if spread to your partner.
 

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wrender said:
And from the stories I hear about that, I'd rather have Aids and die then live with a disease that makes your dyck look like the elephant man
It's a shame the millions that have died of Aids didn't have a choice.

Anyway, don't take HIV lightly. While it's not as common as getting a cold by any means, a cold doesn't kill you does it?

If you're genuinely worried, get tested. If it's just paranoia, take it easy.

It may not have a high contraction rate, and you may not live in disease-ridden africa, but HIV's mortality rate is not something to take lightly.
 

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what if you only got 3 strokes in..without a condom, she was on top and i felt theres wasnt a condom and stopped with 3 strokes..any idea what the chances are
 

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How much asian massage girls want for sex?


The only thing you can do now is wait and see. . . while you waiting be responsible and don't have sex at all. It's four month, 3 is a usual incubation period, 1 is to make sure.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Warboss Alex

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judoalex.. relax man. check your PMs.

the prevalence of HIV in that part of the world is higher than the US or the UK for example but according to your description your sex was mostly safe anyway. even if it WASN'T .. you have a 1 in 2000 chance of catching the disease for this single exposure IF she had it.

You can have a conclusive HIV test at six weeks (99.9% accurate), no need to wait 3 months. Do this, but try not to lose sleep over it in the meantime.
 

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Since HIV is typcially difficult to catch, epsecially if you have no other STDS and are in good health, I would say the only way to "gauge" risks is the HIV testinf process itself.

An HIV negative response at 3months is conclusive and should be the final say. There is no need to put your life on hold and test over and over again.

Unprotected sex and (in certain situaions)fresh blood can transmit HIV. If this scares you, then the solution is to have protected sex which is not a significant risk factor for HIV.
 

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so its harder to catch if your in good health/have no other stds?
 

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Yes.. if other STDs or viruses are present, it's easier for the HIV virus to spread itself.

Basically, as long as you sleep with people you trust (unprotected) and use a condom for every other sexual encounter you shouldn't have to worry about HIV. Although going to a massage parlour in a country where HIV is more common isn't really the wisest thing to do, condoms are 100% protective against HIV.

There's a ton of more common STDs that you can catch a lot more easier than HIV.
 
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