"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
If it's any consultation, I did read one time that men are less likely to contract the disease through intercourse than women. Mainly becuase the male organ doesn't easily take in fluids. However, the spread of the disease is rampant in homosexual males and needle additcs because they are "taking in" the disease.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
It's a shame the millions that have died of Aids didn't have a choice.wrender said:And from the stories I hear about that, I'd rather have Aids and die then live with a disease that makes your dyck look like the elephant man
Anyway, don't take HIV lightly. While it's not as common as getting a cold by any means, a cold doesn't kill you does it?
If you're genuinely worried, get tested. If it's just paranoia, take it easy.
It may not have a high contraction rate, and you may not live in disease-ridden africa, but HIV's mortality rate is not something to take lightly.
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The only thing you can do now is wait and see. . . while you waiting be responsible and don't have sex at all. It's four month, 3 is a usual incubation period, 1 is to make sure.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
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the prevalence of HIV in that part of the world is higher than the US or the UK for example but according to your description your sex was mostly safe anyway. even if it WASN'T .. you have a 1 in 2000 chance of catching the disease for this single exposure IF she had it.
You can have a conclusive HIV test at six weeks (99.9% accurate), no need to wait 3 months. Do this, but try not to lose sleep over it in the meantime.
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An HIV negative response at 3months is conclusive and should be the final say. There is no need to put your life on hold and test over and over again.
Unprotected sex and (in certain situaions)fresh blood can transmit HIV. If this scares you, then the solution is to have protected sex which is not a significant risk factor for HIV.
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Basically, as long as you sleep with people you trust (unprotected) and use a condom for every other sexual encounter you shouldn't have to worry about HIV. Although going to a massage parlour in a country where HIV is more common isn't really the wisest thing to do, condoms are 100% protective against HIV.
There's a ton of more common STDs that you can catch a lot more easier than HIV.