"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
If it's any consultation, I did read one time that men are less likely to contract the disease through intercourse than women. Mainly becuase the male organ doesn't easily take in fluids. However, the spread of the disease is rampant in homosexual males and needle additcs because they are "taking in" the disease.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
It's a shame the millions that have died of Aids didn't have a choice.wrender said:And from the stories I hear about that, I'd rather have Aids and die then live with a disease that makes your dyck look like the elephant man
Anyway, don't take HIV lightly. While it's not as common as getting a cold by any means, a cold doesn't kill you does it?
If you're genuinely worried, get tested. If it's just paranoia, take it easy.
It may not have a high contraction rate, and you may not live in disease-ridden africa, but HIV's mortality rate is not something to take lightly.
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The only thing you can do now is wait and see. . . while you waiting be responsible and don't have sex at all. It's four month, 3 is a usual incubation period, 1 is to make sure.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Warboss Alex
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the prevalence of HIV in that part of the world is higher than the US or the UK for example but according to your description your sex was mostly safe anyway. even if it WASN'T .. you have a 1 in 2000 chance of catching the disease for this single exposure IF she had it.
You can have a conclusive HIV test at six weeks (99.9% accurate), no need to wait 3 months. Do this, but try not to lose sleep over it in the meantime.
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An HIV negative response at 3months is conclusive and should be the final say. There is no need to put your life on hold and test over and over again.
Unprotected sex and (in certain situaions)fresh blood can transmit HIV. If this scares you, then the solution is to have protected sex which is not a significant risk factor for HIV.
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Basically, as long as you sleep with people you trust (unprotected) and use a condom for every other sexual encounter you shouldn't have to worry about HIV. Although going to a massage parlour in a country where HIV is more common isn't really the wisest thing to do, condoms are 100% protective against HIV.
There's a ton of more common STDs that you can catch a lot more easier than HIV.