AlexTheGreat
Senior Don Juan
- Joined
- May 9, 2004
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Well, thank you all for helping me remove some AFC-ness from me -- especially NRM ! Thanks to this site, the bible, and the good people here, I got rid of my Oneitis, moved on, and made it click with an old acquaintance, that I hadn't seen for more than 2 years !
Long story short, I saw her again, for the first time in 2 years, through a friend who organized a little party ... Got a date after that, we went to the movies, and saw "The Day After Tomorrow". Applied a lot of kino throughout the date, C+F and eye contact, and it worked nicely ! I got a second date !
So, for this second one, I invite her to watch some movies at my house. We go in my room and watch a few DVDs, ranging from "Final Fantasy" to "The Shining", and afterwards we talked a little. I then went in, kissed her : she says "What was that for ?" to which I reply "Nothing, just because". We were both lying on my bed at this point : after the kiss, I had backed down and lied down. Now, she comes and kisses me, and we make out for like 40 minutes ! Needless to say, it went nicely !
So, I talk to her again today, and tell her I wanna see her again. Everything is going fine, for now ! But, I'm starting to regret something : I told her that my bus pass was still valid for a few days, so we should see each other somewhere around her place, that way she doesn'T have to pay for bus tickets, and I can use my pass, which means we don't pay for anything yet. But, I told her to propose something fun to do : this is what's scaring me a little, because I haven't taken the initiative in the activity .... sortof .... In a way, I took the initiative in proposing we do something this Friday, but, seen from another angle, I gave her control ....
So, what are your opinions on this last development ? Did I **** up by "letting her decide what we should do" ?
Once again, thanks for everything ! This site is great, and the members are extraordinary ! I haven't been here for a long time, but already I can feel I'm becoming more DJ-ish ! Before, I would never have asked out a girl I just met, out : now, I don't have a problem with it anymore ! So, great job to everyone contributing to this site ! Continue the excellent work !
Long story short, I saw her again, for the first time in 2 years, through a friend who organized a little party ... Got a date after that, we went to the movies, and saw "The Day After Tomorrow". Applied a lot of kino throughout the date, C+F and eye contact, and it worked nicely ! I got a second date !
So, for this second one, I invite her to watch some movies at my house. We go in my room and watch a few DVDs, ranging from "Final Fantasy" to "The Shining", and afterwards we talked a little. I then went in, kissed her : she says "What was that for ?" to which I reply "Nothing, just because". We were both lying on my bed at this point : after the kiss, I had backed down and lied down. Now, she comes and kisses me, and we make out for like 40 minutes ! Needless to say, it went nicely !
So, I talk to her again today, and tell her I wanna see her again. Everything is going fine, for now ! But, I'm starting to regret something : I told her that my bus pass was still valid for a few days, so we should see each other somewhere around her place, that way she doesn'T have to pay for bus tickets, and I can use my pass, which means we don't pay for anything yet. But, I told her to propose something fun to do : this is what's scaring me a little, because I haven't taken the initiative in the activity .... sortof .... In a way, I took the initiative in proposing we do something this Friday, but, seen from another angle, I gave her control ....
So, what are your opinions on this last development ? Did I **** up by "letting her decide what we should do" ?
Once again, thanks for everything ! This site is great, and the members are extraordinary ! I haven't been here for a long time, but already I can feel I'm becoming more DJ-ish ! Before, I would never have asked out a girl I just met, out : now, I don't have a problem with it anymore ! So, great job to everyone contributing to this site ! Continue the excellent work !