She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Tell @flowtheory this. He's literally playing with a loaded gun. I see a child in his very near future if he doesn't course correct.
She wasn’t a single mama when she got pregnant. She thought she actually couldn’t have kids so your title there is a bit misleading.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Not really. She's now, or will be soon, a single mama. She effectively trapped the dude into raising a child he didn't want. Granted, he gambled, but she kept the child because of her medical situation or because it was a gift from God or something. Who knows aside from the fact that he didn't want another mouth to feed and she didn't care. That's not right for the dude or the child. Who knows what will happen to the dude now. He already has three to support, let's just hope he doesn't kill himself due to the child support payments.
The title of the article is actually misleading and yeah, it’s a crappy deal for the guy like I said. If a woman decide to keep a child the guy didn’t want he should not be responsible for any part of raising the child. This is why we have sperm banks.
Doubt it. She dislikes kids and she’s pro abortion. Not to mention, she’s not a single mother.
I've heard of ladies like that too. Amazing how their minds change once they find that they are pregnant. It's your life. Proceed how you wish. It sounds more like your little head is doing the thinking, not your big head.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
From what I've taken away from reading about medical ethics, that's a big part of the issue. If you get a chick pregnant, regardless if you used birth control and it failed, it's her choice to keep the child or not, AND up to the guy to support the child. There are only a couple options available if the woman WANTS to keep the child: