"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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djaus111000

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Ok haven't posted in a while, which is quite a good thig i thikn!

Anyways theres this girl, quite a good friend but theres been a 'spark' between us for a while, she tells me tonight shes kinda together with this guy and has been for like 3 weeks, and he is this absolute dead****...dumb as a mule, anything I can do besides nexting her?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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T Money

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prove to her that you're better than him.

It seems like you know you are, just make her know it now.
 
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blinkwatt

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Just act like she doesnt have a boyfriend that what I do. I have chicks kinoing me all the time with boyfriends,do I care? I was recently used by some brode who has had the same boyfriend for 4 years and I never knew until I saw them together. Just act like he doesnt exist,no talking about him. When she mentions him say something along the lines of, "If I wanted to talk to (insert name) I would be talking to (name)", or I say "I dont want to hear about your boyfriend unless Iam your boyfriend".
 
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