"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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djaus111000

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Ok haven't posted in a while, which is quite a good thig i thikn!

Anyways theres this girl, quite a good friend but theres been a 'spark' between us for a while, she tells me tonight shes kinda together with this guy and has been for like 3 weeks, and he is this absolute dead****...dumb as a mule, anything I can do besides nexting her?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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T Money

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prove to her that you're better than him.

It seems like you know you are, just make her know it now.
 

blinkwatt

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Just act like she doesnt have a boyfriend that what I do. I have chicks kinoing me all the time with boyfriends,do I care? I was recently used by some brode who has had the same boyfriend for 4 years and I never knew until I saw them together. Just act like he doesnt exist,no talking about him. When she mentions him say something along the lines of, "If I wanted to talk to (insert name) I would be talking to (name)", or I say "I dont want to hear about your boyfriend unless Iam your boyfriend".
 
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