"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Ahh, i noticed something when it comes to expressing yourself sexually to women

verysuave

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just a random thought, this is just from experience. AND I NOTICEDD, women use this trick TOO!

When expressing yourself sexually, women seem to be more interested in me when i refer to sex WITHOUT involving them.

For example:
I'd be looking at a FHM/Maxim magazine, then a female coworker would say
"is that all you ever read about?"

And I would say something like "yeah, I'm a guy and I have a very.. VERY high sex drive. That's just me" then go back to reading then just completely ignoring her.

VS

something like "yeah, if you play your game right, you and i could end up on the front cover of penthhouse" . Then they get all b1tchy
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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verysuave said:
just a random thought, this is just from experience. AND I NOTICEDD, women use this trick TOO!

When expressing yourself sexually, women seem to be more interested in me when i refer to sex WITHOUT involving them.

For example:
I'd be looking at a FHM/Maxim magazine, then a female coworker would say
"is that all you ever read about?"

And I would say something like "yeah, I'm a guy and I have a very.. VERY high sex drive. That's just me" then go back to reading then just completely ignoring her.

VS

something like "yeah, if you play your game right, you and i could end up on the front cover of penthhouse" . Then they get all b1tchy
Yes, it's the difference between being flirtatious, sexually implicit as opossed to being direct, explict and putting the interest on her. The latter usually puts them on guard and sets off their anti-slut defense. Good tip you pointed out here.
 
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