"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Ahh, i noticed something when it comes to expressing yourself sexually to women

verysuave

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just a random thought, this is just from experience. AND I NOTICEDD, women use this trick TOO!

When expressing yourself sexually, women seem to be more interested in me when i refer to sex WITHOUT involving them.

For example:
I'd be looking at a FHM/Maxim magazine, then a female coworker would say
"is that all you ever read about?"

And I would say something like "yeah, I'm a guy and I have a very.. VERY high sex drive. That's just me" then go back to reading then just completely ignoring her.

VS

something like "yeah, if you play your game right, you and i could end up on the front cover of penthhouse" . Then they get all b1tchy
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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verysuave said:
just a random thought, this is just from experience. AND I NOTICEDD, women use this trick TOO!

When expressing yourself sexually, women seem to be more interested in me when i refer to sex WITHOUT involving them.

For example:
I'd be looking at a FHM/Maxim magazine, then a female coworker would say
"is that all you ever read about?"

And I would say something like "yeah, I'm a guy and I have a very.. VERY high sex drive. That's just me" then go back to reading then just completely ignoring her.

VS

something like "yeah, if you play your game right, you and i could end up on the front cover of penthhouse" . Then they get all b1tchy
Yes, it's the difference between being flirtatious, sexually implicit as opossed to being direct, explict and putting the interest on her. The latter usually puts them on guard and sets off their anti-slut defense. Good tip you pointed out here.
 
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